You will get puss if you have interests outside of puss

[skinnyguy]

Lately I have been trying a different tactic with women. I've been talking all about myself rather than poking them with questions. I have realized that if they think you're living this big full life they will get entranced.

I've done a little bit of lying. I've overstated my accomplishments, and talked about things I do that I actually don't. But it was just to experiment.

My findings were that enriching the conversation about things that you do in your personal time will make the girl think highly of you. She'll think you're higher status. Let's face it, no girl wants a guy who is on SOS every night :crazy:

At the end of the day, engaging yourself in fun activities will make you less dependent on puss and more happy overall I would say simply working out isn't enough cause everyone works out. Do things that are different than what most people do. I talked about how passionate I am about golf, and this HB was really into it. I told her to try it some day and she said she would. I don't know if it will lead to a date but it's definitely better than going to dinner.

Another thing - stop wasting your time on Instagram/FB wh0res who post pics all the time They might be hot but you're going to end up unhappy if you date them. I did this two years ago and I regret every minute of it. I'd much rather have a well-rounded girl who is excited to see me every day and initiates things. This isn't dropping standards - this is raising your standards.

Alright peace out.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Another interesting tidbit: I have found myself more likely to hook up with women... if I don't talk about trying to hook up with them. Like, most guys will take girls out to bars or some other place with alcohol and spend the whole night trying to talk sex talk - i.e. sexual innuendos, mentioning how they should go back to her/his place, sexual jokes, etc. - in an attempt to convince her they should sleep together. Me, I literally talk about ANYTHING ELSE BUT THAT. Yet, I still look out for their signals and make sure I'm reading their comfort level to know how much to escalate and when. By talking about other things - their interests, my interests, etc. - they become comfortable with me quicker, to the point where I can usually bed them by the second date. Funny how that works, right?

 

[the_stig]

Another interesting tidbit: I have found myself more likely to hook up with women... if I don't talk about trying to hook up with them. Like, most guys will take girls out to bars or some other place with alcohol and spend the whole night trying to talk sex talk - i.e. sexual innuendos, mentioning how they should go back to her/his place, sexual jokes, etc. - in an attempt to convince her they should sleep together. Me, I literally talk about ANYTHING ELSE BUT THAT. Yet, I still look out for their signals and make sure I'm reading their comfort level to know how much to escalate and when. By talking about other things - their interests, my interests, etc. - they become comfortable with me quicker, to the point where I can usually bed them by the second date. Funny how that works, right?

It's because girls run for the hills from what they perceive as the "all he wants is sex" types -- and spending the night pushing sexual talk does exactly that. I could tell half a dozen stories before learning my lesson on the matter.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Yeah, this is especially true of younger women. Unfortunately when your life is consumed by work your hobbies are going to take a dive. The hobbies that then take priority are going to be the ones that provide maximum enjoyment in your limited free time, not necessarily some pvssy magnet.

Yup, it is what it is unfortunately

 

[JohnChops]

hobbies > *****. ***** brings you pleasure for about an hour, hobbies bring you pleasure forever. however i still enjoy pounding away

 

[Jaylan]

Ironic thread coming from the guy who wants to move thousands of miles in order to change his luck with getting puzzy.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You're on the Right Track, but the Wrong Train

Lately I have been trying a different tactic with women. I've been talking all about myself rather than poking them with questions.

Actually, you need to ask them questions in other to discern their likes and dislikes. For example, (and I learned this from Louis and Copeland's, How to Succeed with Women,") you want to ask a woman about what she considers romantic or her ideal date in other to make it come to fruition. There's not wrong with asking questions, just as long as the questions are meaningful, open ended and will result in her doing a gang of talking.

I have realized that if they think you're living this big full life they will get entranced.

Listening to the advice that's being given on this board is a beautiful thing, isn't it?

I've done a little bit of lying. I've overstated my accomplishments, and talked about things I do that I actually don't. But it was just to experiment.

:nono: and Rex will tell you why. You're setting up false expectations and presenting yourself as something your not and never will be. You're doing the male equivalent to having fake breasts. Rex loves him some big ole titties. Personally, I would let down and lied to if I were to holla at chick, get her naked, only to find out she had implants. The same goes for the chick, the reason why she's attracted to you is the image you're putting forth.(which she assumes to be true,) The last thing you need is to meet a chick, y'all are vibing, you're considering wifin' her up, and then you have to figure out who you're going to deal with the lie that you've told her. It's best to leave that alone.

Also, you don't have to overstated accomplishments because you HAVE ACTUAL accomplishments. Dude, Rex feels that you don't fully understand, nor do you fully appreciate what it means to have graduated from the University of California at Berkeley.

You're an alumnus of one of the most prestigious and venerable universities in nation and arguably the best university, not only in the State of California, but also west of the Mississippi. Dude, that's something to be extraordinarily proud and I would incorporate into my game. As a matter of fact, I'd used it as a qualifier. If a chick can't or doesn't appreciate that you graduated from Cal, then that's not somebody you should be dealing with. It's a reflection on her, her character, her level of intelligence, her values, (especially in regards to education,) and her intellectual capacity.

and talked about things I do that I actually don't.

You have two options in this regard,

1) Don't mention it or

2) Instead of lying about it, phrase it as something you'd like to do and then throw it back on her, you'd want to ask her about something she hopes to do or her hobbies.

I've done a little bit of lying. I've overstated my accomplishments, and talked about things I do that I actually don't. I talked about how passionate I am about golf, and this HB was really into it. I told her to try it some day and she said she would.

The Game does wonders doesn't it? What you experienced was a chick wanting to be a part of your reality because you came off like the "Dos Equis Man." Now before you came along, she might have rather watch paint dry than play a round of golf, but because you were passionate and your explanation was so sincere, she was like, "Damn, he makes it sound so interesting, I have to try it.

I don't know if it will lead to a date but it's definitely better than going to dinner.

Bruh, dinner is reserved for long term girl friends. However, a round of golf is a long :cuss: date. Personally, I do some other things before I took her golfing.

 

[VikingKing]

An interested man, is an interesting man.