"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"You were in my dream last night..."

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.... It was a lot of fun."

Girl whom I haven't spoken to in about 3-4 months sent me this. Lookin for some ideas of what to say back. Keep in mind she currently lives in Germany so meeting up is out of the question. Just something to get her hamster wheel spinning.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Unless you want a long distance relationship or nudes or whatever id just leave it alone. Unless you want to work at your texting game which could never hurt.
 
ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Ruler, that would not confuse, that would show complete disgust or disinterest.

I prefer what PPRF said. That seems more playful.
 
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Make her horny over text then get nudies then tell her to board the next plane. You never know.
 
WanderingMan

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You: I'm sure it was.

With it being long distance, I'd keep it short and simple. Don't waste your time and energy on anything lengthy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would just say having a wet dream with me? dirty girl
 
AttackFormation

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I would say this: "You're having dirty-minded dreams about me?! oooh now you've been a bad girl" and then say a joke like "You always think about me like that... is sex all I am to you? :'(" and follow it up with a ";)". Witty, fun, and a little turn-on.

ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Ruler, that would not confuse, that would show complete disgust or disinterest.
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Agree 100% with this.
 
El Payaso

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You can't meet up with her so any reply is a waste of time.
 
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Dont waste your time. Especially if she lives in Berlin, trust me, most girls in Berlin are changing guys every weekend.
 
gravityeyelids

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You didn't really give details on your past relationship with this girl. Is she someone you slept with? Regardless there's no harm in shooting a playful text or two.

Strange how this happens. I had a girl i used to have a crush on in HS text me something similar after months of not talking
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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