I'm in a weird spot in my life where everytime I have an interest in a girl she seems disinterested or literally goes out of her way to ignore me. on the other hand the ones I have absolutely no interest in are the ones that are constantly bugging me or hanging around. So frustrating. I don't care about their stuipid stories that are obviously an attempt to just talk to me. Go away! Meanwhile its as if when I try to get a chat up with the objects of my affections I am having the same effect on them that these ugly girls have on me.
Case in point ... girl at work. Pretty hot. I'd say an 8. Almost seems nervous around me. If we are in a group and I am part of the conversation she will never make eye contact with me if she is talking. However if I am talking she will. I can feel her nervousness ... almost like Spiderman sense... why are these girls nervous around me? By the way I am def not creepy.Normal guy
Heres another quickie. Girl I know for a long time. I am talking to her at her desk. Simple conversation. Wasnt even trying to make a move or anything. Then I can tell I am wearing out my welcome for some reason. Others chime into the conversation and huddle around her desk. She takes that opportunity to turn aroundand start working again. Now I'm in a chat with a few other people and NOT her. However I know she is still listening cuz every once in a while she takes the opportunity to throw a few semi-hurtful comments my way. Nothing major. Just jabs .."what a dope"...something to that effect...playful yet stinging in a way. I know she doesn't mean any harm but theres def a purpose there. Anyway, at the end I say my goodbyes to everyone and her...and i get no response back. Maybe I caught her on a bad day , but what the f&%#? Can;t say goodbye. Very demoralizing.
In summary ( and you tell me if I'm on the right path here)...I'm thinking the nervousness is a sign of interest but she has problems expressing herself. Possible interest but I'd really have to get her at ease. As for the other one...well I know she used to have interest and would love to talk to me. Now this sudden disinterest ...well i'm not sure where that came from. I'm thinking either it was a bad day...or once these girls get a guy of their own...they will diss you in a flash. they want no part of you anymore. Am I right? In other words she's banging some other guy so hit the road Jack!
Case in point ... girl at work. Pretty hot. I'd say an 8. Almost seems nervous around me. If we are in a group and I am part of the conversation she will never make eye contact with me if she is talking. However if I am talking she will. I can feel her nervousness ... almost like Spiderman sense... why are these girls nervous around me? By the way I am def not creepy.Normal guy
Heres another quickie. Girl I know for a long time. I am talking to her at her desk. Simple conversation. Wasnt even trying to make a move or anything. Then I can tell I am wearing out my welcome for some reason. Others chime into the conversation and huddle around her desk. She takes that opportunity to turn aroundand start working again. Now I'm in a chat with a few other people and NOT her. However I know she is still listening cuz every once in a while she takes the opportunity to throw a few semi-hurtful comments my way. Nothing major. Just jabs .."what a dope"...something to that effect...playful yet stinging in a way. I know she doesn't mean any harm but theres def a purpose there. Anyway, at the end I say my goodbyes to everyone and her...and i get no response back. Maybe I caught her on a bad day , but what the f&%#? Can;t say goodbye. Very demoralizing.
In summary ( and you tell me if I'm on the right path here)...I'm thinking the nervousness is a sign of interest but she has problems expressing herself. Possible interest but I'd really have to get her at ease. As for the other one...well I know she used to have interest and would love to talk to me. Now this sudden disinterest ...well i'm not sure where that came from. I'm thinking either it was a bad day...or once these girls get a guy of their own...they will diss you in a flash. they want no part of you anymore. Am I right? In other words she's banging some other guy so hit the road Jack!