"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eltosian

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Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
My coach is Mike Burgener (also US olympic women's weightlifting coach)
I know him. He posts regularly on the Dragondoor forum.

Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
Yeah, snatches are hard. It's taken me the better part of 2 years to learn the correct form.
I stick to power snatches, and not the "classical" snatch, as I am just an athlete and not a competitive Olympic lifter.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ Girevik

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I do the same thing although I'm trying to learn the "classic" snatch and how to make it work. The classic squat clean is also tough but I can squat clean about 80 kilos now.
 
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