You try to trap her..but now YOUS can't leave

[Divorced w 3]

I can't tell if you're being serious. But being an athlete ha snothing to do with sexual performance. Some men last a few minutes in bed, some men have a smaller penis size, etc. --Everything I mentioned about the Cardi B / Offset situation was based on facts-- between what both of them posted on social media and live streams on instagram.

I think you're trying to cope with the fact that sexual dominance is a real big factor int odays marketplace. If you can't stack up to the men in her life who have rocked her world, you'll never be taken seriously. ENjoy being a free dinner date.

The reasoning you’re giving in Offset vs Steffon Diggs is purely conjecture. In other words, you have given no proof that one, Offset is better in bed, and two, no other factors played into her choosing Offset - which means that, you have made a presumption based on, nothing more than your personal belief system, or, you’re trolling?

 

[ValiantMale]

The reasoning you’re giving in Offset vs Steffon Diggs is purely conjecture. In other words, you have given no proof that one, Offset is better in bed, and two, no other factors played into her choosing Offset - which means that, you have made a presumption based on, nothing more than your personal belief system, or, you’re trolling?

NOt sure where you left your comprehension skills or if you lack them completely.. They both mentioned it various times on live stream and in social medai posts. Cardi B used to talk about how Offset was the best sex she's had ever and how she has been around the block yet he still has been the best. Offset on the other side would brag about his sexual ability and how he bagged Cardi because of his skills in bed. Each time she would get cheated onby Offset she would go back. She dated multiple prominent figures while they were separated and kept going back each time. The latest was with Stefon Diggs and it ended very quickly.. Offset celebrated knowing why and mentioned something like he knows hes the best shes ever had.

Its not just all the stuff thats right in front of us that they were both saying and we all were seeing.. It's me knowing from perosnal experience why women come back and why women stay and why women rebound. Sexual performance is a big factor for wmost women these days. A rapper chick who ohas money is already going to be only seeing men who have money so the rest doesnt matter. it all boils down to the sexual chemistry/sexual performance.

If you suck inthe sack, tough luck bud.. but get your mind right and wake up to the game.

 

[Divorced w 3]

most likely sexual comparison.. he didnt stack up.

most likely?

 

[Divorced w 3]

NOt sure where you left your comprehension skills or if you lack them completely.. They both mentioned it various times on live stream and in social medai posts. Cardi B used to talk about how Offset was the best sex she's had ever and how she has been around the block yet he still has been the best. Offset on the other side would brag about his sexual ability and how he bagged Cardi because of his skills in bed. Each time she would get cheated onby Offset she would go back. She dated multiple prominent figures while they were separated and kept going back each time. The latest was with Stefon Diggs and it ended very quickly.. Offset celebrated knowing why and mentioned something like he knows hes the best shes ever had.

Its not just all the stuff thats right in front of us that they were both saying and we all were seeing.. It's me knowing from perosnal experience why women come back and why women stay and why women rebound. Sexual performance is a big factor for wmost women these days. A rapper chick who ohas money is already going to be only seeing men who have money so the rest doesnt matter. it all boils down to the sexual chemistry/sexual performance.

If you suck inthe sack, tough luck bud.. but get your mind right and wake up to the game.

I just quoted a post, where.. you used nothing more than either personal belief, or perhaps trolling, to defend a premise.

Have you considered going back to finish your high school diploma?

 

[ValiantMale]

I just quoted a post, where.. you used nothing more than either personal belief, or perhaps trolling, to defend a premise.

Have you considered going back to finish your high school diploma?

I think your severe lack of inexperience with women is blatantly apparent. Resorting to insults just tells me you probbaly haven't gotten laid in a while.

That's okay, its okay to be frustrated. Get in the gym, figure out what type of haircuts women like on men with your face shape, get that haircut, Work on yourself for 2 years, and if you have sexual issues, focus on those primarily.. Sexual confidence is everything and you reak of impotency.

Some of us speak with such certainty because we've got over a decade of experience with hundreds of women. Get your manhood back today get laid brother.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I think your severe lack of inexperience with women is blatantly apparent. Resorting to insults just tells me you probbaly haven't gotten laid in a while.

That's okay, its okay to be frustrated. Get in the gym, figure out what type of haircuts women like on men with your face shape, get that haircut, Work on yourself for 2 years, and if you have sexual issues, focus on those primarily.. Sexual confidence is everything and you reak of impotency.

Some of us speak with such certainty because we've got over a decade of experience with hundreds of women. Get your manhood back today get laid brother.

2:1 Razor Rambo

 

[Sega Genesis]

@ValiantMale respectfully your assessment of @Divorced w 3 is incorrect, read just some of his posts. They speak for themselves.

That's all I'm gonna say about that but I have a question and hope you will answer honestly and also respectfully without biting my head off cuz I'm female but anyway...

Referring to my previous assuming you read it,
do you see a correlation between a woman's overall "attraction" (physical, sexual, mental, emotional) to a man and HIS sexual ability/confidence?

Do you believe one can exist without the other?

I don't know the people you referred to but I would bet Cardi B was simply more attracted to Offset which is why she thought he was the best in bed and kept going back!

For many reasons he was able to maintain her attraction, it wasn't just because he knows what to do with his ****.

Do you agree? Disagree?

 

[Divorced w 3]

@ValiantMale respectfully your assessment of @Divorced w 3 is incorrect, read just some of his posts. They speak for themselves.

That's all I'm gonna say about that but I have a question and hope you will answer honestly and also respectfully without biting my head off cuz I'm female but anyway...

Referring to my previous assuming you read it,
do you see a correlation between a woman's overall "attraction" (physical, sexual, mental, emotional) to a man and HIS sexual ability/confidence?

Do you believe one can exist without the other?

I don't know the people you referred to but I would bet Cardi B was simply more attracted to Offset which is why she thought he was the best in bed!

Foe many reasons he was able to maintain her attraction, it wasn't just because he knows what to do with his ****.

Do you agree? Disagree?

I’m not just great in the sack, I’m also charming

The only reason I took the time to reply to him is because it’s an easy opportunity to contrast bad thinking with real experience and help others

Yours always,

van helsing

 

[ValiantMale]

@ValiantMale respectfully your assessment of @Divorced w 3 is incorrect, read just some of his posts. They speak for themselves.

That's all I'm gonna say about that but I have a question and hope you will answer honestly and also respectfully without biting my head off cuz I'm female but anyway...

Referring to my previous assuming you read it,
do you see a correlation between a woman's overall "attraction" (physical, sexual, mental, emotional) to a man and HIS sexual ability/confidence?

Do you believe one can exist without the other?

I think the guy is still coping over a bad divorce. His attitude screams frustration.

I think its very important to understand that not all women are superficial and not all women are spoiled (to have dated many capable/alpha males/hot guys). and yes, I do see a correlation between a womans overall attraction and a mans sexual ability/confidence. In this day and age, majority of men suffer from sexual issues. Part of it may have to do with how big porn is in our society, and the other half has to do with how unhealthy our food is. THe man with great cofnidence and sexual performance usually has to have some level of discipline and focus to be a capable man. It's also a sign of his experience with women.

A man usually develops his sexual confidence through his positive *sexual experiences with women. To be able to have sex with those women, it usually also shows alot about his personality, social status or just his overall dominion as a man. We can even go as far as to say that sexual confidence is largely a byproduct of inner confidence to begin with and being comfortable with ones self/self love.

But yes, I feel a sexually confident and capable man is usually far more receptive than one who is bad in bed or just lacks the experience with women. The more sexually confident and experienced I became throughout my twenties, the more I felt receptive to a womans wants and needs. OFC, some guys are just looking to get laid and can care less about anything else-- but not only have I been there but also seen women attach themselves to guys like us despite our lakc of care and consideration-- Infact, I can go as far as to say 9/10 women who have always came back around no matter how inconsiderate, uncaring or cold I was with them did so because the sex was amazing. I've had a bunch of times where she'll straight up tell me that I've been the best they've been with. Whether true or not doesnt matter --fact is they enjoyed the sexual connection.

Basically, at age 33 --after almost 15 years in the dating market, I've culiminated that deep down on a physical and emotional level ATTRACTIVE women really prioritze sex over everything else.. and sexual confidence and ability signals something hardwired in women about our capabilities as men. Perhaps it goes back to findin gthe "best mating partner" in prehistoric times ..whatever it is, I think its important for men to understand it now more than ever.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I think the guy is still coping over a bad divorce. His attitude screams frustration.

I think its very important to understand that not all women are superficial and not all women are spoiled (to have dated many capable/alpha males/hot guys). and yes, I do see a correlation between a womans overall attraction and a mans sexual ability/confidence. In this day and age, majority of men suffer from sexual issues. Part of it may have to do with how big porn is in our society, and the other half has to do with how unhealthy our food is. THe man with great cofnidence and sexual performance usually has to have some level of discipline and focus to be a capable man. It's also a sign of his experience with women.

A man usually develops his sexual confidence through his positive *sexual experiences with women. To be able to have sex with those women, it usually also shows alot about his personality, social status or just his overall dominion as a man. We can even go as far as to say that sexual confidence is largely a byproduct of inner confidence to begin with and being comfortable with ones self/self love.

But yes, I feel a sexually confident and capable man is usually far more receptive than one who is bad in bed or just lacks the experience with women. The more sexually confident and experienced I became throughout my twenties, the more I felt receptive to a womans wants and needs. OFC, some guys are just looking to get laid and can care less about anything else-- but not only have I been there but also seen women attach themselves to guys like us despite our lakc of care and consideration-- Infact, I can go as far as to say 9/10 women who have always came back around no matter how inconsiderate, uncaring or cold I was with them did so because the sex was amazing. I've had a bunch of times where she'll straight up tell me "youre the best ive been with".

Basically, at age 33 --after almost 15 years in the dating market, I've culiminated that deep down on a physical and emotional level women really prioritze sex over everything else.. and sexual confidence and ability signals something hardwired in women about our capabilities as men. Perhaps it goes back to findin gthe "best mating partner" in prehistoric times ..whatever it is, I think its important for men to understand it now more than ever.

Post the most recent exchange of you setting a date , preferably with a member of the opposite sex

 

[Sega Genesis]

I think the guy is still coping over a bad divorce. His attitude screams frustration.

I think its very important to understand that not all women are superficial and not all women are spoiled (to have dated many capable/alpha males/hot guys). and yes, I do see a correlation between a womans overall attraction and a mans sexual ability/confidence. In this day and age, majority of men suffer from sexual issues. Part of it may have to do with how big porn is in our society, and the other half has to do with how unhealthy our food is. THe man with great cofnidence and sexual performance usually has to have some level of discipline and focus to be a capable man. It's also a sign of his experience with women.

A man usually develops his sexual confidence through his positive *sexual experiences with women. To be able to have sex with those women, it usually also shows alot about his personality, social status or just his overall dominion as a man. We can even go as far as to say that sexual confidence is largely a byproduct of inner confidence to begin with and being comfortable with ones self/self love.

But yes, I feel a sexually confident and capable man is usually far more receptive than one who is bad in bed or just lacks the experience with women. The more sexually confident and experienced I became throughout my twenties, the more I felt receptive to a womans wants and needs. OFC, some guys are just looking to get laid and can care less about anything else-- but not only have I been there but also seen women attach themselves to guys like us despite our lakc of care and consideration-- Infact, I can go as far as to say 9/10 women who have always came back around no matter how inconsiderate, uncaring or cold I was with them did so because the sex was amazing. I've had a bunch of times where she'll straight up tell me that I've been the best they've been with. Whether true or not doesnt matter --fact is they enjoyed the sexual connection.

Basically, at age 33 --after almost 15 years in the dating market, I've culiminated that deep down on a physical and emotional level ATTRACTIVE women really prioritze sex over everything else.. and sexual confidence and ability signals something hardwired in women about our capabilities as men. Perhaps it goes back to findin gthe "best mating partner" in prehistoric times ..whatever it is, I think its important for men to understand it now more than ever.

First off, I appreciate the response!

Secondly, I don't agree about Dw3 but everything else fair enough!

However, it seems like (to you) a man's sexual ability and confidence is the only thing that's important and while YES!!! it's absolutely important it's not the only thing that will maintain a woman's attraction.

That's all I'm saying VM.

 

[Sega Genesis]

Post the most recent exchange of you setting a date , preferably with a member of the opposite sex

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Lol you had some even funnier ones a couple of years ago if memory serves.

I recall thinking and saying at the time when I was cats, "Guy's got game"! Lol

 

[ValiantMale]

Post the most recent exchange of you setting a date , preferably with a member of the opposite sex

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This is embarassing. Trying to prove a point to someone about "setting up a date" Speaks volumes as to where you're at with women and your level of maturity.

Try actually capitalizing and getting to a point where you can rock her world instead of almost getting a date. Now im certain you don thave texts of her talking about how you rocked her world last night or how shes at work fantasizing about what u guy sdid last night. Because if you did, you'd lead with that in trying to prove yourself to a stranger online instead of this laughable content.
Do you giggle to your friends about "almost got to 2nd base" with a girl? Sounds like it so far.

First off, I appreciate the response!

Secondly, I don't agree about Dw3 but everything else fair enough!

However, it seems like (to you) a man's sexual ability and confidence is the only thing that's important and while YES!!! it's absolutely important it's not the only thing that will maintain a woman's attraction.

That's all I'm saying VM.

Certainly not the ONLY thing but cmon babe, I think everything else goes without saying. I am just emphasizing a part that I found to be very important. I think most capable guys will make it in the door, so that's not a problem.. I think about whats past that. I think most guys know how to be emotionally receptive, have good communication, be protectors and all that. I think the line between capable men and uncapable men has just became very clear. Hot chicks who can get all that other stuff an dhave experienced enough of it time an dtime again with the boring mushy romantic simpy stuff.. they just want to have a good time with a solid guy and then have mindblowing sex.. Its not hard to understand but thats also why i mentioned not all girls are superficial.. they're also not all very attractive.. lol

If a guy lacks sexual confidence, would you wan tto date him? I think it would disqualify him and his energy would be offputting to begin with..unless hes a great actor. or his lead up is great but his ability to close the deal is bad lol..he'll have you wondering if you missed the fine print.

I forgot the exact stat but it said something about 80% of women like sex for the sentiment but dont feel its pleasurable enough. <-- This is a major reason why guys need to get in tune.

 

[Sega Genesis]

If a guy lacks sexual confidence, would you want to date him? I think it would disqualify him and his energy would be offputting to begin with..unless hes a great actor. or his lead up is great but his ability to close the deal is bad lol..he'll have you wondering if you missed the fine print.

OK I do see your point now, a man's 'energy' is a good way to describe it (offputting). And to answer your question NO! I would not want to date him.

Earlier I made a post in another thread about a man's confidence and inner security/strength, including sexual, being one of the most important qualities a man could possess!

It causes ME to feel more secure, many men in my experience don't get that.

Without it, I'm left questioning things and floundering.

 

[ValiantMale]

OK I do see your point now, his 'energy' is a good way to describe it. And to answer your question NO! I would not want to date him.

Eallier I made a post in another thread about a man's confidence and inner security and strength, including sexual, is like one of the most important qualities a man could possess!

It causes ME to feel more secure, many men in my experience don't get that.

Without it, I'm left questioning things and floundering.

Great to hear that some of what I said resonates with you. Honestly, as I tell other guys in my circle-- much of what I learned about women besides my own experience was from women themselves. If men are in a position to have women around them that feel comfotable speakin about their experiences, theres so much to gain by just listening.. ofc alot of it is hilariously bad stories too.. but i enjoy those from time to time.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Now im certain you don thave texts of her talking about how you rocked her world last night or how shes at work fantasizing about what u guy sdid last night.

post one, Rambo hahahaha

 

[Divorced w 3]

First off, I appreciate the response!

Secondly, I don't agree about Dw3 but everything else fair enough!

However, it seems like (to you) a man's sexual ability and confidence is the only thing that's important and while YES!!! it's absolutely important it's not the only thing that will maintain a woman's attraction.

That's all I'm saying VM.

You’re qualifying yourself to a fat incel sitting in a trailer park in Alabama

 

[Divorced w 3]

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Valiant Male is highly likely to be razorrambo24, likely returning under a new handle after a ban, based on shared informal, error-prone writing (e.g., “medai”/“th emost”), assertive tone, and focus on manosphere themes (sexual prowess vs. toughness). Both project masculine personas, with “Valiant Male” as a plausible rebrand from the aggressive “razorrambo24.” Differences in content (celebrity gossip vs. personal narrative) and engagement style are minor and explainable by context or a two-year evolution. razorrambo24 is likely not the 2004 “Razor Rambo” due to the 19-year gap and age inconsistencies, though the handle suggests inspiration. To confirm, check Valiant Male’s post history, verify razorrambo24’s ban, or share more posts for analysis.

 

[Slowhandluke]

Hi Sega,
"If you believe your d*ck alone is the magic sauce to keep her, you're being a bit naive." So glad this came from a Woman,had I or any of the Older posters said this,Valient Male would have brushed it away as mere jealousy.

Both men and women get old. If anyone thinks its about the sex, they will get a divorce sooner or later. Nobody can be "10" forever. Look at the old Hollywood actress and actors. Look at their younger self. Those that tend to stick together really didn't get together initially because the sex was good. It was other things.

This is also why more people in arranged marriages are happier. The focus was not about the sex. Don't marry anyone who believes it's all about the tingles and you will have a better chance of being happy.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I can't tell if you're being serious. But being an athlete ha snothing to do with sexual performance. Some men last a few minutes in bed, some men have a smaller penis size, etc. --Everything I mentioned about the Cardi B / Offset situation was based on facts-- between what both of them posted on social media and live streams on instagram.

I think you're trying to cope with the fact that sexual dominance is a real big factor int odays marketplace. If you can't stack up to the men in her life who have rocked her world, you'll never be taken seriously. ENjoy being a free dinner date.

Your flaw in your argument is that you claim Cardi B reconciled with her ex-husband multiple times purely because of his “sexual dominance,” but that doesn’t mean this variable caused it. There are multiple factors at play such as children, shared assets, business ties, public image, and security all of which weigh far more heavily in decisions like reconciliation than just bedroom performance.

Also, you dismissed my point about an athlete having the physical edge in sexual performance just because you say athletes don’t matter in that context. It’s convenient how you disregard basic physical advantages like stamina, discipline, and body awareness simply because it doesn’t support the point you’re trying to make. Good thing those goalposts are on wheels, isn’t it?

Female arousal doesn’t depend on performance metrics like duration or size since that’s a male fantasy. What drives female desire are factors like status, power, confidence, emotional connection, and imagination. That’s why women gravitate toward men who embody dominance, confidence, and emotional depth, not just physical performance, because their fantasies revolve around narratives of power, vulnerability, and emotional awakening, not porn stars with stamina. That’s where female eroticism actually lives, and it can be all through romantic novels, not in the oversimplified ideas you keep repeating as if they’re universal truth.

What’s funny is that you attacked my character instead of addressing my points. You act like you hold some special authority on how their private relationship works, or like you’re an expert on their bedroom and emotional dynamics, yet you don’t actually know anything beyond surface level headlines and gossip.

PS: The reports are that Diggs broke up with Cardi B, but that is not either here or there.

PS #2: I linked an article that you should read, in which it cites with scientific evidence, how female desire works and how it differentiates from male fantasies.

The Triggers of Sexual Desire Pt 2: What’s Erotic for Women?

If there’s such a thing as porn for women, it's the romance novel. And the amazing popularity of this genre points to the vast differences between male and female arousal.

www.psychologytoday.com