You too soft...iron up, hard times are around the cornah ( sosauve needs to upgrade his principles)

[Gamisch]

Someone (won't say who) asked me what I be doing cause they see I'm winning. I have some haters but also some smart men who know I'm on the path towards succes.

Here's the thing; I've been broke dating for most of my life. You could say I'm an intellectual Pookie. A bluepilled beta thug at heart. You know, the kind of guy that attracts women because they THOUGHT I was the typical toxic guy only to be turned off because I..wanna keep them? Fall in love? Become p00sy whipped? Take them seriously while they ain't shyte?

Get your fecking bag up gents!!! Ain't no way around it. Get some SERIOUS paper should be mandatory step 1. Ho3s come and go, as does money but the money you got is 100% within your control unlike women..

Get your money up. Create an environment that is women friendly by default. Let your deeds do the talking. Cold approach? You shouldn’t have time to roam the streets and approach xyz number of women. If you do, you're doing it all wrong. Even if you got time to be in the gym 7 days a week you're doing it wrong. You need at least 3 maybe 5 hustles .

Get your priorities right...women are a BYPRODUCT never the main course. As I say in the title, sosauve should be focused on different core principles and methodology. The Rollo days are over .it's an new era with new rules.

 

[Donisio]

I agree that a man's life priority should never revolve around women. It should be about himself.

Speaking for myself (and I believe a good part of the guys in my circle think the same), a lot of what we do is (most of the time) unconsciously and involuntarily directed toward getting p*ssy. It's biological.

And when a guy doesn't get p*ssy for a while, he starts to go crazy and do some AFC sh*t.

When a guy is at that point, it takes a lot of effort to focus on himself.

So we definitely need to check some things in the playbook. The game has changed so much. And rewire our brains is tough sh*t.

 

[Solomon]

Totally agree if your man 35+ is still living at home, no car, no job or a job that can hardly pay any bills
You're priorities are wrong, level up, the women will always be there!

 

[Bible_Belt]

I believe it is spelled "cawnah." The hyphenated 'caw-nah' would also be acceptable. It's a nod to the late legendary boxing announcer Jimmy Lennon. I temember him from watching boxing on TV when I was a kid. That was so long ago that it was free on ABC.

 

[Divorced w 3]

get that paper

 

[BadBoy89]

I would say a man should completely focus on girls when he is young; commit to them, sleep with them, get them pregnant. Do everything he can do with girls when he is young.

Men often think when they get older and get rich the hot young girls are suddenly going to come around and love them. Yes they’ll come around, but any relationship will be 150% transactional; almost a hooker like feel. Heck, any relationship with any women when a man is older will be 150% transactional.

A man always has time to get money and get rich, he doesn’t always have time to sleep with hot young girls.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Congrats on your achievements but being broke and successful in dating shouldn’t be seen as some extraordinary accomplishment. If that were the case, we’d need to look at birth statistics, since it’s clear that broke people are breeding the most.

 

[Gamisch]

Congrats on your achievements but being broke and successful in dating shouldn’t be seen as some extraordinary accomplishment. If that were the case, we’d need to look at birth statistics, since it’s clear that broke people are breeding the most.

I agree.

But for a broke man being successful in dating is the ultimate compensation in life

That's what women do to us: they get to decide who is more valuable. So now we have:
- a dude who studied, works hard but is...let's say short.
- vs a dude who is leeching of people ,broke but is tall.

SHE decided that the second dude is more valuable, thus the first one goes through life feeling unworthy. And this feeling will consume all of his energy!! We're now at a point we're the first man pay the broke dude for advice!! Not knowing he has all the cards to outplay him, no he PAYS him.

Ofcourse broke tall dude ( me) will hit his limit sooner or later. When she finally had enough of getting banged om the air mattress and spending hot days inside because no money to do fun syte, she will slowly disappear.

Still the tall dude will be able to replace her over time, while short insecure dude will go through a lengthy, lengthy dryspell that cab lasts f9r up to a decade.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I agree.

But for a broke man being successful in dating is the ultimate compensation in life

Being well off and not being a simp can coexist; these two traits are not mutually exclusive. Four years ago, I was unemployed, and it was rough. I hated having to dodge questions about my situation, plan everything around my empty bank account, and just deal with the humiliation of not having a job. Most serious women won’t give an unemployed guy with no solid plan the time of day. Sure, there’s Connor McGregor’s wife, but he was a potential millionaire, not a Target shift lead. I did manage to date two girls during that time, but it didn’t work out. One ended because of my mistake, and the other got mad when I took an insurance job out of desperation (huge financial mistake, by the way). That’s a chapter of my life I never want to revisit. Honestly, I’d rather be a simp than go through that again. No able bodied man should be awarded for being an unemployed or broke loser.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Cold approach? You shouldn’t have time to roam the streets and approach xyz number of women. If you do, you're doing it all wrong.

I was with you, all the way up until here.

 

[jhonny9546]

I agree with your thinking.

A similar thing happened to me when I played video games and couldn't climb the rankings: I spent too much time "wanting to climb the rankings" rather than "learning the game, improving, and worrying about winning every single game."

So it's a mindset shift that puts you on the right track to having what a man should have in a good life.
Your influences, good or bad, are crucial.

 

[plumber]

yes and yes. don't forget the fun. after you get to a point, there is no point.

if you can be the devil or an archangel, what do you choose. they both got power and money. they both got a long line of women...

when a man understands that he can do it. the next question is what is worth doing.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I started my own business yesterday

grind grind grind

win win win win win

fvck everything else

ain’t chasing no bytch

get paper

 

[Gamisch]

I was with you, all the way up until here.

Sorry I know you the Cold approach king bro

 

[Gamisch]

I started my own business yesterday

grind grind grind

win win win win win

fvck everything else

ain’t chasing no bytch

get paper

Believe me ,that's the topic of this thread: with the current outlook on tbe future, they will be chasing you..

You'll literally be a once in a lifetime opportunity for a woman who believes her p00sy is the best, one of a kind ect. They'll learn..

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Sorry I know you the Cold approach king bro

I'm just curious as to what the message is here.

Are you saying that, while you're on your grind and getting your hustle on, you can't also pursue new puzzy?

Is the message to remain celibate until the $$ pours in?

Can you not walk (grind) and chew gum (pursue new puzzy) at the same time?

Does one contradict the other?

It seems like you are overdosing on the red pills, brethren.

 

[Gamisch]

I'm just curious as to what the message is here.

Are you saying that, while you're on your grind and getting your hustle on, you can't also pursue new puzzy?

Is the message to remain celibate until the $$ pours in?

Can you not walk (grind) and chew gum (pursue new puzzy) at the same time?

Does one contradict the other?

It seems like you are overdosing on the red pills, brethren.

Nah, i mean that some men need to realize their day has 24 hours. So how is dude supposed to spend them?

Let's say you're living in a small town/ your broke/ out of shape/ put of mental shape.

Cold approach might be the LAST and least productive thing this man can do. Instead of chasing falling fruits, he might be better of planting a fruit tree. Setting traps instead of running behind prey

by the way I'm way passed the stage of redpil rage now. I call this the diamond pill. When you finally make shyte click and figure out a win- win strategy.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Nah, i mean that some men need to realize their day has 24 hours. So how is dude supposed to spend them?

It's called; time management.

If, in 24 hours, you aren't able to squeeze an hour or less in for cold approaching, then perhaps you need to take a class on time management.

Let's say you're living in a small town

/ your broke/ out of shape/ put of mental shape.

Women, job opportunities, and local gyms are everywhere, even in small towns.

Keyword; women.

Cold approach might be the LAST and least productive thing this man can do.

Then he might as well cut off all extracurricular hobbies and leisures.

He shouldn't go to a baseball game..he shouldn't go to the movies..he shouldn't play video games or even join his friends for hoops at the park.

Just cut out everything and focus on his purpose.

Are you recommending that?

Instead of chasing falling fruits, he might be better of planting a fruit tree. Setting traps instead of running behind prey

Sure, and career success, health wellness, and relationship goals can all bear good fruits on this tree.

One doesn't have to be sacrificed to achieve the other.

by the way I'm way passed the stage of redpil rage now. I call this the diamond pill. When you finally make shyte click and figure out a win- win strategy.

Diamond pill, you say?

Yeah, it sounds good...but if you aren't out cold approaching the women that you deem attractive, and you advise men against it, then you can't be even red pill.

That's just my opinion, no disrespect to you...I stopped following dating coaches after they revealed their stances on cold approach.

 

[Gamisch]

It's called; time management.

If, in 24 hours, you aren't able to squeeze an hour or less in for cold approaching, then perhaps you need to take a class on time management.



Women, job opportunities, and local gyms are everywhere, even in small towns.

Keyword; women.



Then he might as well cut off all extracurricular hobbies and leisures.

He shouldn't go to a baseball game..he shouldn't go to the movies..he shouldn't play video games or even join his friends for hoops at the park.

Just cut out everything and focus on his purpose.

Are you recommending that?



Sure, and career success, health wellness, and relationship goals can all bear good fruits on this tree.

One doesn't have to be sacrificed to achieve the other.



Diamond pill, you say?

Yeah, it sounds good...but if you aren't out cold approaching the women that you deem attractive, and you advise men against it, then you can't be even red pill.

That's just my opinion, no disrespect to you...I stopped following dating coaches after they revealed their stances on cold approach.

I don't think there's a definite truth. Imo cold approach isn't as great. Mind you ,I've done thousands approaches in my life.

The climate against approaching is also a thing to discuss. If you do live in a smaller town you might be burning down your bridges real fast. Look at the thread that's running now: dude approached 1000 women slept with 4..not my words..just the most recent thread about it on the forum..

Yes diamond pill. That's a state of bliss where a man feels like he found a winning strategy and a sustainable one. For you that might be cold approaching one hour per day following a certain set. For me that's about working 12 pee day stacking money knowing that I've ALWAYS attracted women ,and I always will. Now I'm more interested in keeping certain women around.

 

[MatureDJ]

This title reminded me of a scene in a classic movie: