I apologize the provocative topic. This is a tip and reminder for many of you guys. (Also a small field report, kind of, so dont consider everything to apply everywhere and to everyone)
0. Canned content will not get you far ! Consider inner game very important. If you ever learn anything, it is this. Get your sh!t together. (i also consider this a never ending path. You will always learn)
1. 7 hour rule. (confirmed) If it takes a lot longer you are well on your way on friend zone.
2. Be the prize (confirmed). Make yourself busy, go to gym or whatever. But remember this is a fine line. She must think about you but if she starts to look elsewhere because you are too busy, you are doing it wrong.
2.1 ****y, funny and funny. (confirmed) very powerful. I even got to the point where the chick told (jokingly) that she'll have a time for next date in 35days because she has 35 guys she needs to meet. (after I had made several similar jokes)
2.2 Also never be jealous ! You don't own her, she'll date other guys probably. You shouldnt either have all your eggs in one basket!
3. Your apartment is always clean. (no expection, confirmed)
You have several different drinks in your fridge (if you think you have even a small chance that a chick will come by. failed!) You have an extra unused tooth brush. (failed!)
4. Have no doubt. And if you do, don't show it. Just cut her off if you think it won't work. Don't talk her about this. (failed!)
5. Oneitis! Even if you are aware, this might happen to you! Never send any love notes etc. Be aware. I was jogging my head straight and though "sh1t she almost got me!" (almost failed)
6. Be aware of cultural differences. It might not be prober to do some things. Give this some thought, it will not probably break your game but if ignored will certainly give some trouble.
Finally, I want to thank the community for great tips and assure some of you that there's a lot of good information. I wasn't a perfect dj, you will easily get carried away. Nevertheless, if you didnt figure it out, I had a pleasant last night !
ps. (thank you dd!)
0. Canned content will not get you far ! Consider inner game very important. If you ever learn anything, it is this. Get your sh!t together. (i also consider this a never ending path. You will always learn)
1. 7 hour rule. (confirmed) If it takes a lot longer you are well on your way on friend zone.
2. Be the prize (confirmed). Make yourself busy, go to gym or whatever. But remember this is a fine line. She must think about you but if she starts to look elsewhere because you are too busy, you are doing it wrong.
2.1 ****y, funny and funny. (confirmed) very powerful. I even got to the point where the chick told (jokingly) that she'll have a time for next date in 35days because she has 35 guys she needs to meet. (after I had made several similar jokes)
2.2 Also never be jealous ! You don't own her, she'll date other guys probably. You shouldnt either have all your eggs in one basket!
3. Your apartment is always clean. (no expection, confirmed)
You have several different drinks in your fridge (if you think you have even a small chance that a chick will come by. failed!) You have an extra unused tooth brush. (failed!)
4. Have no doubt. And if you do, don't show it. Just cut her off if you think it won't work. Don't talk her about this. (failed!)
5. Oneitis! Even if you are aware, this might happen to you! Never send any love notes etc. Be aware. I was jogging my head straight and though "sh1t she almost got me!" (almost failed)
6. Be aware of cultural differences. It might not be prober to do some things. Give this some thought, it will not probably break your game but if ignored will certainly give some trouble.
Finally, I want to thank the community for great tips and assure some of you that there's a lot of good information. I wasn't a perfect dj, you will easily get carried away. Nevertheless, if you didnt figure it out, I had a pleasant last night !
ps. (thank you dd!)
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