"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bearfan34201

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A solid 8.5, one of the hotter girls in my school.. me and her have been talking the last week or two, she always seemed to give me solid ec, say hey to me in the halls or just scream my name. So last week she goes " Bearfan, what are you doing this weekend?". I told her I might be going to the city to visit a buddies sister but thats about it, otherwise I wasnt sure. She said " thats cool... Give me a call this weekend".


Now I called her, she gave me a call back leaving a voicemail saying "Bearfan! Im at a party.. I like you alott!! Give me a call back".

I called her back and she was at a party so nothing materialized. Only thing was the next week we didnt talk to much except for wed when I asked her what she was doing this weekend. SHe said family but otherwise she didnt know.


Now, I'm wondering if i should call her this weekend. Before you guys say she said she liked me. She seems very AW including I guess shes with one of the star linebackers at my school supposidly. Not that I would care cause I'm cool with him, But for all I know I could have been just another one of the guys. It also didnt seem like she said it like she meant it, maybe she did, she sounded a little drunk or something. Who knows.

lol to be honest I dont know why i posted this, I should just call her. But for this situation I would like to hear some other opinions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamePendo

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Yo Bearfan, send me 10k, dollars.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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If she actually likes you then she'll call you. If she doesn't call you then she prob doesn't give a ****. If she doesn't give a **** then why bother with her?
 
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