Originally posted by 007~JC
Take every bit of advice with a grain of salt and Field Test EVERYTHING.
-007
I agree 100%! Personal experience is the only true way to learn.
Asking for advice here is good for getting different perspectives, but unfortunately a large percentage of this advice is not written from experience, but rather based on theory, stereotypes and prejudgements (i.e. all women are b1tches and out to screw you over!)
There are no set rules when dealing with people because people are all different. Advice that applies to a attention ***** does not apply to a nervous girl. It's upto you to learn the difference.
Luckily you decided to trust your own judgement this time and it paid off.