You sure are a fast typer!!

[B-Real]

The other day I was sitting in my computer lab minding my own business. Then out of nowhere came this beautiful blonde and sat down diagonal from me. She had on a very low cut shirt that was slightly revealing so I figured she wanted to be noticed.

So I kinda pondered on what I might could say to this girl. As I was thinking, I noticed that every guy that walked passed her would stare at her in awe. However they would walk behind her where she couldn't see them.

This gave me a since of determination and obligation to talk to her since every other guy didn't have the balls to.

So I gathered up my confidence and said

me: "You sure are a fast typer" (it was the only thing that came to mind, since she was typing pretty fast.

blondesmiling) "no not really"
me: "yeah you must have had some kind of typing class to move like that"
blonde: (face reddening) "no i mess up to much haha"

So I didn't say anything else for a few minutes. But I noticed that every time she would type something, she would laugh. So I figured this was a sign that she still wanted the attention that I was giving her.

me: "what are you laughing at"
blonde: "oh I'm talking to my friend online and its funny."
me: "so whats your name?"
blonde: "amy"

And thats where it ended. For some reason I could not find it in my gut to ask for her number. However I did feel a little better since I did at least speak with her unlike the other 5 guys that were scared. So when I left I said
me: "bye Amy"
amy: "bye!"

Not my best but I sorta froze up.

 

[Serialized3]

Lame. No wonder Westside Connection clowned all over B Real and Cypress Hill.

 

[Bigg Boss]

Lame. No wonder Westside Connection clowned all over B Real and Cypress Hill.

Cypress Hill > Westside Connection

 

[B-Real]

It sure is great to have such good spirited help on this site!!

 

[itishe]

It sure is great to have such good spirited help on this site!!

Welcome to the jungle

 

[Serialized3]

It sure is great to have such good spirited help on this site!!

Im sorry sweetheart, but I would have helped you had you posted any sort of question in regards to your approach.

 

[B-Real]

What could I have done to make it more C & F instead of borrriinnngg like I played it out?

 

[Aaron B]

Well you didn't get her number so you didn't "succeed."

But your thinking, and the way you approached her initially are dead on. Thats the exact sort of thing women respond to.

Next time, do the same but get her number at the end.

 

[Serialized3]

What could I have done to make it more C & F instead of borrriinnngg like I played it out?

She introduced herself. Make some small talk, ask her what she was doing in there, maybe bust on her for being a nerd...whatever. Just talk to her for a couple of minutes and get her number.

 

[B-Real]

I'm gonna work on my social skills. Hindsight 20/20 I could have played that much better than I did.

 

[kdnash82]

She introduced herself. Make some small talk, ask her what she was doing in there, maybe bust on her for being a nerd...whatever. Just talk to her for a couple of minutes and get her number.

Serialized3 makes a good point. You opened well and she responded. Everyone on this board will tell you what they would have said in your situation, but that's after they've had the opportunity to think about it. They will never admit that it's a lot easier to "type" a ****y and funny, rather than say it on the spot. Typing gives them time to think about what they wanna say.

In all honesty, it's something you have to work on. I usually come up with dumb follow ups that deal with the conversation. It really doesn't matter as long as you keep them talking about themselves. The trick is to relate to what they're saying by telling something about yourself.

How many times have you told a story to a good friend and before you've even finished, they've already cut you off and started telling you a story similiar to yours? It's the same exact thing, but with a woman!

Great way to grab your balls and say something, but follow up next time! Good luck

 

[ValleyDJing]

Cypress Hill > Westside Connection

Yep!

 

[Kev07]

good start, keep practicing, do this more and you will be better. i've gotten better, but i'm still not where I would like to be yet

 

[itishe]

Remember dude, not every conversation has to be perfect or the essence of excellent C&F. It's just not feasable.

 

[rrrrr]

This is the problem I run into, it makes me think, if she really wanted to talk to you, she should have contributed more. Yeah, if that's all you said, I didn't see much of a chance of getting her real number.

 

[B-Real]

I'll tell you what I'd like to be able to do. I know its just a movie, but in Wedding Crashers, Vince Vaughn is great. Like the way he spoke to his secretary and just all the off-the-wall stuff that he comes up with. And again I realize its just a movie and he was told to say that, but I think in the real world it would be cool to be able to "let go" like that.

Just a thought