"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You shouldn’t dismiss a slut as a quick lay

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If you’ve lurked around SS for a while chances are you have your radar fine tuned to spot a slut in a matter of minutes by now. And you don’t hit that because she’s a slut. This rationalization strikes me as a self righteous white knight complex or a castrated beta boy attitude.

Well, if you don’t hit that tart, somebody else will. And why shouldn’t be you the one drilling her? It’s fun, you shouldn’t care if she’s a slut if you're just looking for kicks.

The only reason you want to discard a slut as an option is that you’re looking for a LTR. For anything else there are condoms. Don't pvssy out on easy girls, use them for your own pleasure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where have you just come from? A monastery?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
Where have you just come from? A monastery?
This comes from "user name", a keyboard jokey who spent years on an lovey-dovey Skype fueled LDR with a chick who had a long term BF. User name never met her face to face... Yeah, that opinion counts.
 

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iamnobody said:
This comes from "user name", a keyboard jokey who spent years on an lovey-dovey Skype fueled LDR with a chick who had a long term BF. User name never met her face to face... Yeah, that opinion counts.
it wasn't an opinion OP. it was a question. a rhetorical one at that. Slvts are never dismissed as a quick lay hence why they are called slvts. they might get dismissed as LTRs though.

p.s. - i have no idea what you are talking about 'a lovey dovey skype fueled ldr'. i don't even have Skype.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
they might get dismissed as LTRs though.
Have you actually read my post? Here's the bit that might've eluded you: "The only reason you want to discard a slut as an option is that you’re looking for a LTR."
sylvester the cat said:
p.s. - i have no idea what you are talking about 'a lovey dovey skype fueled ldr'. i don't even have Skype.
I got that from one of your heartfelt confessions back when you were user name, actually.

In all fairness, I grew tired with little faggots pretending to be DJs and offering lame advice about what to do with sluts, based soleily on their fragile little egos.
A slut is to be treated accordingly: fvck her brains out without getting attached. Keep her in your orbit for rainy days.

And yeah, to answer your question, I come from the Monastery of thight wet juicy pvssy.
As a side note, I'm not going to get into a p1ssing contest with you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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iamnobody said:
Have you actually read my post? Here's the bit that might've eluded you: "The only reason you want to discard a slut as an option is that you’re looking for a LTR."

I got that from one of your heartfelt confessions back when you were user name, actually.

In all fairness, I grew tired with little faggots pretending to be DJs and offering lame advice about what to do with sluts, based soleily on their fragile little egos.
A slut is to be treated accordingly: fvck her brains out without getting attached. Keep her in your orbit for rainy days.

And yeah, to answer your question, I come from the Monastery of thight wet juicy pvssy.
As a side note, I'm not going to get into a p1ssing contest with you.
that didn't elude me, no. but dismissing a slvt as an LTR is a totally separate issue from dismissing her as an easy lay.

Your thread is titled 'you shouldn't dismiss a slvt as an easy lay'.

the majority of threads here are from people trying to get slvts into LTRs. the question of whether or not to sleep with them is rarely the issue.

i don't recall making any confessions about an LDR with a girl on skype. like i said, i don't even have skype.
 
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