"You really are a daddy.'"

[nubian-knight]

A girl I have on the side calls me "daddy" casually. not really into that but whatever


anyway whenever I say no to a stupid demand or question her irrational female behaviour she'll say somethingl ike "you really are a daddy, so many rules with you justl ike my dad"

what does this even mean?

i tell her no i just demand respect and don't tolerate bs behaviour

but wtf kind of comment is that, whats the deeper meaning if any or is is just woman spew

 

[Warrior74]

My black girls always call me daddy when I'm hitting it. "Get it daddy!" I love it when they say that. Consider it a sign of respect.

 

[nubian-knight]

My black girls always call me daddy when I'm hitting it. "Get it daddy!" I love it when they say that. Consider it a sign of respect.

im not talking about the "ooo daddy" in bed. thats obviously ok

im talking about with an annoyed tone girl basically telling me i remind them of their dad. and its funny cause all i do is outline that i dont tolerate BS behaviour and be a doormat like other guys

i dont care about the comment cause i stick to my principles regardless but it makes me feel like a strict old fart

 

[Vypros]

i dont care about the comment cause i stick to my principles regardless but it makes me feel like a strict old fart

It obviously bothers you, if even just a little bit.

Considering that women tend to date men who are like their fathers, I'd take it as a compliment.

In woman-speak it means that you are getting to her. You're evoking a reaction in her, even if it's a negative one. Which is good.

 

[MaddXMan]

Even out of bed being called daddy is a sign of respect. It means you are a man who takes care of his woman but also puts some rules down. Just call her babygirl once in awhile - it'll fit perfectly.

 

[The Sperminator]

It's not a sign of respect if you read what he said he said they call him that in a mocking tone. If you boss them around or act like there dad they will call you this. Just tone it down a little.

 

[nubian-knight]

I see what you guys are saying but its the context in which shes said it that pisses me off. Just cuz i dont meet her unreasonable requests.

The other day we were making plans for the next day. I told her id pick her up on my way home from work (its on the way from work, which is also 25 min opposite direction of my house) so that would of course make sense. She insisted shed borrow her sisters car and come over herself despite my offer.

The next day rolls around and as discussed i just go home since shes suppose to come herself. she calls me saying "her sister took the car for a bit, come pick me up now" to which i replied no, you rejected my offer earlier, come when your sister brings the car back. her reply was "Why are you punishing me this is something my dad would do"

convinently her sister came home like 20 min later and she ended up coming over obv bs


but i duno the fact that i remind her of a parent seems kind of unattractive. i dont show her it bothers me but it makes me feel stiff when she calls me that. which is funny cause im fun and always up for a good laugh and fun time

is setting authority and not putting up with BS realy that bad

 

[nubian-knight]

It's not a sign of respect if you read what he said he said they call him that in a mocking tone. If you boss them around or act like there dad they will call you this. Just tone it down a little.

exactly i can tell apart an "oooo daddy" from "oh god your like my dad"

but the thing is she only calls me this when i refuse to be a doormat. its not like im a controlling bossy ass hole. i just hold my own and maintain self respect

 

[MaddXMan]

Then help her see you in the proper context. When she said "oh you're just like my dad" say "really? Would your daddy do this?" Then **** her brains out or tap that ass. That'll get her head straight.

Note she has not said it verbally yet but probably one of the reasons she likes you is that you keep her in check.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Your from the bay boy! The *****es call us daddy all day boy! In all seriousness you ain't doin nuthin wrong. Just keep doing you.

 

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[02hero]

As long as she aint saying **** like "you remind me of my father, you know what? I really hate my father", Joker style, no need to worry.....

 

[Axcell]

As long as she aint saying **** like "you remind me of my father, you know what? I really hate my father", Joker style, no need to worry.....

Haha, loved that movie.

 

[DJVladdy]

Example of a good woman that knows her place. Good job bro, if i heard that from her id like it.