You randomly bump into a plate while on a date with another plate..what do you do?

[spiegel549]

This has happened to be more then once, but would love to hear stories by other men who have experienced this.

Was on a 2nd date with a Tinder plate when I bumped into a girl I have been seeing for 2 months :cuss:

This 2 month plate is SMART too and she would of called me out BUT what I did was, the second I walked in and saw my main plate (she didn't see me) I got "a phone call" and pulled the new plate back outside, FAST. I used my acting skills and put on a fake phone call and changed locations with the girl due to something coming up at work that I had to get to "later that night" lol... so we went to a closer spot.

Was a close call but I came out victorious with a lay by the new plate

Please share with me your stories!

 

[Maximus Rex]

Rex Would....

I'd invite her to join us and try to parlay it into some menage action.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

The only thing you can do is act cool. Play it off like it's no big deal. They will take the signs from you. Are you flustered, nervous, and have sweat beading up all over your face? Or, is it no big deal. "Oh, hey Plate#1, how you doing?" "This is plate #1" "Hi" "Hi" "we're going to go grab a drink, I'll talk to you later."

They'll either figure it out. Okay....you're in high demand, competion is now on. Either that, or they'll dismiss it and convince themselves you're hanging out with a girl friend, someone from work, class, buddy's gf, someone who is no threat.

It's a tough situation. But you HAVE to remain calm, no matter what. If one of them makes a scene (the one you bump into), then just excuse yourself (with the new plate) and leave. Old plate's hamster may go into a tail spin, oh well. Part of being a "playa". You'll deal with her later that night or better yet tomorrow when she calms the fvck down and starts apologizing for going nutso.

And yes, by all means, if you can avoid the situation, unless you're trying to get some competitive action going, then do so. However, part of being a MAN/Alpha, is just accepting that if you have a lot of women, they may run into each other at some time.

It's like the saying about people who ride motorcycles: "There are those that have crashed, and there are those that are going to crash"

Just got to roll with it.

Best case scenario, if they take to each other, then you could possibly do this:

I'd invite her to join us and try to parlay it into some menage action.

Personally never been able to do that^ from this type of scenario, however, I have had two plates sitting on my couch, next to each other, shootin the $hit. At that particular time though, all I was trying to do is get one of them the fvck out of there.

 

[European-DJ]

It has happened to me a lot of times, always aknowledge your images presence, be nice, say hi, introduce the two; they WONT be making a huge scene on a restaurant, and won't ask "who is she".

When your tinder date asks you, just say "ohh her, that's X, she's a friend if mine from X". When your 2 month plate asks you the same via text/phone call later, and she will, give her a bullshvt excuse as well.

Just remember, don't be all touchy-feely as long as both plates are present, and don't look at your 2 month plate all of the time - if she is well mannered, she will come to say goodbye when she leaves, and that is your hint to start escalating physically as well (prior to this, you where escalating through verbal action), on your tinder date.

Regards,