"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You Only Meant To Wet Your Feet..Temporarily

King of Action

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You’re too scared to approach a female. I want to give you an example. What if you married this lady?


I met my wife at 15yrs old and married her at 31yrs old.

You start dating this lady. Neither one of you can see any faults about each other. You see everything like WOW about her.

My mother honestly said, “you will know your wife when the two of you will go out and have NO money, but will enjoy yourselves anyway” (relationships still come to an end).

You go out places, and, (boo yow) she even pay for the first date to-get-her (together). Everything happened quick all-of-a-sudden. Now, she beat you to the punch to pay for the first date...don’t get your head too high on the swivel right here. However, you think to yourself anyway, WOW, OK, this is cool.

START PAYING ATTENTION.....
Are you going to go back out with this female, correct? You will. I was dating other females and this particular one, did more than I even expected. Did SHE stand out? Are you sizing her up...by now? NO...Remember you’re the same age and born the same year (26 yrs old at this time)...You ONLY expect this from older women, correct?

I ONLY MEANT TO WET MY FEET...
I only meant to wet my feet b/c The wife I’m talking about was the best looking female on the block at 15yrs old. When I saw her at 26yrs old when we started dating, she was fat and out-of-shape.

WE GOT DIVORCED...
We got married, had a son now 8 yrs old and still call each other every day.. I was judging her for her looks at 26yrs old. Doin’-Da-Do with her to-this-day, is the softest thing in the world.

If she sweep-you-off-your-feet if she look good, watch out b/c the one you meant to only wet your feet for just a couple of dates, will end up being with you longer than you expected.

LOOKS AIN’T EVERYTHING!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Boilermaker

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didn't get a word of what you said..

maybe since I am woozy and it's 5AM or you are another Scaramouche ...
 

Atom Smasher

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Hey, whatever happened to Scaramouche?
 

betheman

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It appears vaguely....English
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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We realize you call yourself "king of action" but try to be at least a knight of word cause apparently nobody got your point.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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