“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"You never get excited about anything"

Neon Owl

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My gf of a year and a bit has said this to me a couple of times now and I have no clue what she means...I openly admit I'm a very laid back type of person and I actually think it's one of my best traits but she sees it as a negative apparently.

She told me the other night I'm so laid back and I never get excited about anything. Is this girl code for saying I'm boring or what? She said it right after she was tickling me and I tried to tickle her back but stopped as I know she's not ticklish. She always does little cheeky things like grabbing my cig or the remote control and not letting me have it back.

I joke with her all the time and take her out places for things to do and eat etc.

I'm not the type of guy to jump around and act all hyped up that just is not who I am. But maybe could use some tips on how not to appear to be a boring b4astard. Anyone got any ideas?
 

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wimminz loves the drama....be a psycho for even a nano second, ask about her sexy friend...is she seeing anyone? who is he? she hs the curves....etc, be subtle, then dont answer, piss off and do some other sh!t...if she comes back to you and asks....what????
 

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betheman said:
wimminz loves the drama....be a psycho for even a nano second, ask about her sexy friend...is she seeing anyone? who is he? she hs the curves....etc, be subtle, then dont answer, piss off and do some other sh!t...if she comes back to you and asks....what????
She doesn't have any sexy friends lol so that would be difficult. Though she usually comments on guys she finds attractive on the tv so maybe I should start voicing my opinion on women too.

Didn't understand the rest of your post mate :/
 

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my ex would say this to me. I told her it's cause I don't act like a little child like the way she does lol...
 

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As long as she is still spreading her legs, it's just her talking and you shouldn't change a thing.

99% of the stuff they say is pointless and doesn't lead anywhere if you entertain it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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