"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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you never fail with this system !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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the most congruent opener = ask for a difficult direction

have your Q s preplanned ( ask about a good restaurant what is the difference between this food or that food )S he might even take you to the place !!!
ALWAYS ASK THE SAME Qs until you deliver your patter like a comedian does

use the same negs " i can t quite understand you !! are you a country woman , are you here to sell butter ? " I THOUGHT ALL THE WOMEN HERE WORE BASEBALL CAPS ?

get RAPPORT ( RAPPORT IS EVERYTHING !!!!! )


TRADE DIGITS

do 4 APPROACHES A DAY IF you don t get digits don t worry trying is succeeding

you ve done your 4 approaches you ve done your homework you can go home now and have a beer
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Are you here to sell butter?" That is fvcking hilarious. I've gotta use that. Not to get laid or anything, just as a verbal smackdown.
 

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i do my four approaches every single day get about 5 TELEPHONES NUMBERS A WEEK
SOME DAS I DON T GET ANTHING BUT THAT S OK WITH ME IVE DONE MY SCHOOLWORK
 

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Galactus said:
"Are you here to sell butter?" That is fvcking hilarious. I've gotta use that. Not to get laid or anything, just as a verbal smackdown.
That one stuck out to me too. I'm really getting my money's worth on this site today! :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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