"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You never call me........

themiltman

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Ok playas i have a little situation with this broad i have been talking to for the past 2 weeks. Just a little history we have kicked it the past two weekends and she is a friend from school who just moved back into town. I enjoy her company and i think she has potential. I just want to take it slow. I told her i wasn't looking for anything serious and she said it was fine. The problem is she constantly text messages me and calls me. Sometimes I answer sometimes i don't. I have a busy life work, school, etc.

Last night she text me and i didn't answer about 30mins later she sends another text talking about maybe im ignoring her and she would talk to me later. So i texted her back and i told her i wasn't ignoring her but i was working on homework. She never responded to my text, so i called her because i hate texting back and fourth but she never answered. So im tring to figure out what is she on? Why does she think im ignoring her if i dont answer her text? does anyone else have this problem? let me know
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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5string

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You are ignoring her by not answering her text. If you get one that says "you never F me", then you have a problem.

And by her not answering your texts/calls, she's just turning the tables on you. Losin the frame brother.
 

themiltman

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she has called me twice and text me twice since last night. I answered and she wanted to know what i had going on this weekend, but its halloween weekend im not caking with her.
 
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