"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You never call me........

themiltman

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Ok playas i have a little situation with this broad i have been talking to for the past 2 weeks. Just a little history we have kicked it the past two weekends and she is a friend from school who just moved back into town. I enjoy her company and i think she has potential. I just want to take it slow. I told her i wasn't looking for anything serious and she said it was fine. The problem is she constantly text messages me and calls me. Sometimes I answer sometimes i don't. I have a busy life work, school, etc.

Last night she text me and i didn't answer about 30mins later she sends another text talking about maybe im ignoring her and she would talk to me later. So i texted her back and i told her i wasn't ignoring her but i was working on homework. She never responded to my text, so i called her because i hate texting back and fourth but she never answered. So im tring to figure out what is she on? Why does she think im ignoring her if i dont answer her text? does anyone else have this problem? let me know
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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5string

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You are ignoring her by not answering her text. If you get one that says "you never F me", then you have a problem.

And by her not answering your texts/calls, she's just turning the tables on you. Losin the frame brother.
 

themiltman

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she has called me twice and text me twice since last night. I answered and she wanted to know what i had going on this weekend, but its halloween weekend im not caking with her.
 
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