"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheGambino

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Doin a lot of kino with girls lateley..

do you guys think if u kino too much and tease too much she'll think hes only in for the sex and scare her off also..

found out some girls backing off when i try to escelate too fast

what u guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheGambino said:
Doin a lot of kino with girls lateley..

do you guys think if u kino too much and tease too much she'll think hes only in for the sex and scare her off also..

found out some girls backing off when i try to escelate too fast

what u guys think?

When you kino a girl it should in context.

I like to use it fairly quickly, but very very subtly & making it seem natural.

For example I might walk by a cute co-worker and ask her a question, as I walk up I might put my hand on the small of her back or shoulder while I ask, then take it away within a couple seconds.

If your constantly touching her it will become a little too much, unless she is highly attracted to you.

The girls that are backing off, are doing so for two reasons:

1) they might not be attracted to you

2) your doing it wrong, too much


Make your kino seem more natural, use push/pull with it and keep working on your game and girls will start lining up.










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Yes, in my experience kino is not some magical technique that will get her attracted to you. Kino when she is attracted to you in order to escalate. Also calibrate the situation. You can get a little more forward in clubs rather than lower-key bars. Girls can be sensitive to how others are viewing them in social situations. If you are having a hard time determining if she is attracted to you then can try kino to suss that out. Then you read her signs and calibrate to the situation. Can be tricky is the girl is shy and not reciprocating. In that case try to get her to invest by leading her to the bar to get a drink for instance. Or to semi-isolation somewhere, even a couple steps away from her friends.

You should always try furthering the interaction (force decisions) to find out where you stand. If she is not letting you lead her then it might be a lost cause and you can move on to better prospects without wasting a lot of time.
 
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