"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You must drill these into your head....

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I know alot of you say what I post is "common sense" but I disagree. There are some on here who still don't know.

A.) Although strikingly gorgeous women are indeed RARE, there is no shortage of cute girls around. Contrary to what other people say, there are just as many cute girls out there than there are "average at best" and unattractive looking women.

B.) There are more good-looking women than there are men. Don't believe me? Google it and you will find out good looking parents are 38% more likely to produce a daughter than a son.

C.) No ATTRACTIVE looking woman is "out of your league" unless you are below average looking or if the woman could pass for a Victoria's Secret Model (then you should be strikingly handsome)

D.) I guarantee you have seen plenty of guys no better looking than yourself and less attractive than yourself with attractive women MULTIPLE TIMES!

E.) If you don't think you are good enough for a girl you like, the next guy will.

F.) If you are dating a HB6 or above, you MUST ACCEPT that she will be checked out by other men on a DAILY BASIS. I mention this because some guy are severely bothered by other men looking/hitting on their girlfriends. If she is atleast SOMEWHAT CUTE (a HB6) this is INEVITABLE (get over it!!)

G.) While you are busy worrying what other people think about you or other people caring about "what you do", remember they are thinking the samething.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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