"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You must drill these into your head....

stuka1939

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I know alot of you say what I post is "common sense" but I disagree. There are some on here who still don't know.

A.) Although strikingly gorgeous women are indeed RARE, there is no shortage of cute girls around. Contrary to what other people say, there are just as many cute girls out there than there are "average at best" and unattractive looking women.

B.) There are more good-looking women than there are men. Don't believe me? Google it and you will find out good looking parents are 38% more likely to produce a daughter than a son.

C.) No ATTRACTIVE looking woman is "out of your league" unless you are below average looking or if the woman could pass for a Victoria's Secret Model (then you should be strikingly handsome)

D.) I guarantee you have seen plenty of guys no better looking than yourself and less attractive than yourself with attractive women MULTIPLE TIMES!

E.) If you don't think you are good enough for a girl you like, the next guy will.

F.) If you are dating a HB6 or above, you MUST ACCEPT that she will be checked out by other men on a DAILY BASIS. I mention this because some guy are severely bothered by other men looking/hitting on their girlfriends. If she is atleast SOMEWHAT CUTE (a HB6) this is INEVITABLE (get over it!!)

G.) While you are busy worrying what other people think about you or other people caring about "what you do", remember they are thinking the samething.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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