Kailex
Master Don Juan
So last night, I was out with a friend of mine. I really don't drink anymore, but the guy just came back from South Korea and well, we had to go celebrate his prompt return.
We went to a local bar where I used to be a regular and there's this guy that I've usually seen there in the past... now with a woman.
They both look really happy with each other.
After a while of my buddy and I talking by the bar, they come right next to us and start talking to each other. The conversation gets lovey dovey really quick when he says to her: "You make me so happy."
She looked like she melted... but my buddy just looked at me and rolled his eyes and I could feel a fire burning from inside of me.
Now, it seems to be quite the small thing to hear something like this... but for me, it was frustrating... because he has no idea what he's telling her.
"You make me happy"
Can easily translate into:
"My life sucks without you, and you're the only reason why I feel any sort of joy in this life."
It makes me cringe to think that anyone could think so lowly of their life that their entire happiness would depend upon one other person. Look, I know it's just a line, but we need to think and process what exactly we are telling these women. Whenever I am with someone, I let them know that I am already happy with myself and my life and any happiness I feel with that person is an extension of what I already own.
No one is the sole purpose and being of my own happiness other than myself.
So before you even bother to tell your girlfriend or plate that "You make me happy" or "You complete me" or whatever Hollywood movie cliche, just think of what you are saying it and WHY you are saying it.
If you are happy with yourself and your life... if you walk away from that woman or she walks away from you, you'll have the safety net of a full and happy life and not an empty void and a deep hole that you've dug yourself into.
Happiness needs to come from you, not another woman.
We went to a local bar where I used to be a regular and there's this guy that I've usually seen there in the past... now with a woman.
They both look really happy with each other.
After a while of my buddy and I talking by the bar, they come right next to us and start talking to each other. The conversation gets lovey dovey really quick when he says to her: "You make me so happy."
She looked like she melted... but my buddy just looked at me and rolled his eyes and I could feel a fire burning from inside of me.
Now, it seems to be quite the small thing to hear something like this... but for me, it was frustrating... because he has no idea what he's telling her.
"You make me happy"
Can easily translate into:
"My life sucks without you, and you're the only reason why I feel any sort of joy in this life."
It makes me cringe to think that anyone could think so lowly of their life that their entire happiness would depend upon one other person. Look, I know it's just a line, but we need to think and process what exactly we are telling these women. Whenever I am with someone, I let them know that I am already happy with myself and my life and any happiness I feel with that person is an extension of what I already own.
No one is the sole purpose and being of my own happiness other than myself.
So before you even bother to tell your girlfriend or plate that "You make me happy" or "You complete me" or whatever Hollywood movie cliche, just think of what you are saying it and WHY you are saying it.
If you are happy with yourself and your life... if you walk away from that woman or she walks away from you, you'll have the safety net of a full and happy life and not an empty void and a deep hole that you've dug yourself into.
Happiness needs to come from you, not another woman.
