"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You Looked For It...You Got It, Now Deal With the Consequences

Down Low

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Frank2500 said:
To the poster "Downlow," you seemed to find it quite funny when I revealed that she has a nine-year-old daughter. I'd like to read your perspective. She even proposed that we use our cell phones and take pictures of ourselves sometime holding each other in intimate wear (underwear, etc.), but I said "absolutely not."
She's been looking for a substitute daddy (gullible self-loathing type who'll tend another man's farm) for NINE YEARS without success. Of course she's desperate. Is she willing to harm herself? Again, of course. She set herself up to be pumped 'n dumped yet again by a man she barely knows.

Take it from someone who's been there. Clingly now, abusive/neglectful soon and forever more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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