"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You look taller than you think you do!

JayCamx23

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6' 185...a year and a half ago i was 5'11 150...lifting weights will do that to ya:up: by the way i only work out my arms. i prolly look like a monkey lol.. not really but i always wonder, not worry, what i look like to others. im turning 16 in may and doc says im supposed to turn out 6'2-6'3...sounds like im done growing and im only 15? i thought i was gonna turn out 6'5 or so. o well
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Spur212

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If you're short, is there anything wrong with you telling the girl to bend over when talking to you?
 

mb1978

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I'm super lanky also...6' 2 1/2" and 150 pounds. I have to imagine girls don't like that body type.

I am naturally thin, I eat a ton of food, and I also run...I guess I need to start doing some weight training stuff, but I don't want to give up the running because I do 5K's.
 
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