"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"You look relaxed"

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...is a comment I get from women as a conversation starter. I've been in "the community" for a few years and believe I have mastered the art of body language: if I have nothing to say, or doesn't feel like it, I just sit with an open body language and spectate the people I'm hanging with.

Have you ever got this comment out of the blue? What does it mean in woomanese (spelled incorrectly on purpose, why is it censored)? I just simply answer something like "Yes, I'm just relaxing".

Comments would be greatly appreciated. Cheers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its a conversation starter, it means nothing more than i noticed you chilled out, and wanna chat get to know you better, and let some of the relaxation rub off on me.
 
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woman-ese is censored for some retarded reason. Some sort of copyright thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you are offended by it you will seem insecure. Women do this to see if u are bluffing or if you really are as confident as you seem.
 
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