"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You know, you're kinda alright

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MisterMcGee

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I read the "a few smooth lines" page on sosuave and this caught my attention as something I'd actually naturally say:

"This is one of my favorite lines. You use it by interrupting a girl in the middle of her conversation. You just jump in and say:

"You know, you're kinda alright."

It works well, because the interruption gives it added effect. It makes it seem spontaneous. It is close to being a neg but it's not. It is a hybrid."

I could imagine a kiss-test or kiss-close following this.
Has anyone ever used something like this by chance? (No, im not into canned stuff. Like I said, this totally fits my personality and the relationship between me and this certain girl)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not a bad line, I'm gonna give it a go when I get the chance next time. It would have to followed up with something good though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah it works pretty well. Iv done it when the girl just takes off with the conversation and talks my ear off. I let myself stare at her a bit longer than usual and then slowly smile and say "your not half bad you know"


One of my favorite lines that I dont know if I made up or read somewhere but when the girl does says something very stupid, you say "its a good thing your cute"

If she gives you a confused look and doesnt get the joke and says "huh?" to you, just follow it up with "becuase your not the smartest thing iv met"

Thats been a very effective line for me.
 
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Yes I've done this several times and works great every time. You don't even need to ineterrupt her, just randomly say it. It's great cause its like a neg and always gets a chuckle out of them. Also it'll get her thinking in her own head wondering what you meant by that :)
 
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