You know you are becoming closer to a DJ when...

[Accension]

I love these little moments.
They always come after time spent on the field, not here.
Those moments you feel you've become closer to this man we preach about.

They normally happen after you reflect, if you reflect on field you are in-your-head.
You'll also notice that such wisdom wasn't in how successful you were, it's independant of outcome.

I'm talking about a higher level of achievement.
Who here hasn't thought they're a pimp/player/DJ mid-sex but notice how that thought goes away when she does.

This is independant of the girls entirely.

You've all heard of the concept of state right? or Nova.
Ever notice how your state is pumped through the roof when you have had some initial success with women, this explains why guys that already have girl friends can get girls easier than a single man.


The boy friend thinks 'I already have a girl friend, I'm complete, I'm successful'.
Then the girl dumps him and he reverts back to the same guy he always was now that he doesn't have that initial success pumping his state.

• What if we could be in state all-the-time?
• What if we could still feel amazing regardless of the outcome?
• What if that girl leaves and you, yourself never took the time to fill the void she did?

When do you know you've become closer to a DJ?

 

[Dannyrt34]

Just for the record. When I think of myself as a DJ, I don't think of this 'man' that you say we all preach about. I consider myself a DJ because I have become the 'man' that I want to be.

I used to be very socially awkward, I just rarely felt comfortable with any social interactions with women. I've always worked out and serious about my health, but I wanted to be somebody that everyone looked up to.

I was always a really laid back, relaxed guy. I wanted this part of my personality to expand itself into all aspects of my life.

Sure I read alot of advice on here, and tried out many different things that made me feel even MORE uncomfortable. But through all that experience of me making a fool out of myself, something great happened. I became comfortable with myself alot more. I stopped doing these techniques and rules. I began doing whatever the hell I wanted to do, just being myself and confident in myself.

I'm now relaxed, funny, and confident, all with being me. That's what makes me think of myself as a DJ.

 

[prairiedog24]

I had my moment today when I stood on the scale and it said 142, and I looked at myself in the mirror and thought "who the f is that stud."

Mark Rippetoe can have my children.

 

[comic_relief]

You know you are becoming closer to a DJ when...

1.) I started coming on here less and living more
2.) I started not to care about what people thought about me.
3.) you are able to pick up ex-gf's best friends and legal little sisters (true story) :yes:

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