"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
you know who's livin life?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
AFCToDJSlowButSurely
Don Juan
He is controlled by a major corporation. It isn't real. No wonder American males are so confused. Celebs are pusses. Why? Because they don't live their own lives. They are obedient or else they get kicked to the curb for another new created star. For the last time - TV IS FAKE! REALITY SHOWS ARE FAKE! HOLLYWOOD IS FAKE!!!AFCToDJSlowButSurely said:yeah i was watching some fantasy factory earlier tonight, dude definitely lives by his own rules. gotta respect that.
Just a Shot Away
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Eh, sort of. You're definitely right about the reality shows. I was talking to some guys earlier today that think reality shows are actually real, lol. I know, right?BigJimbo said:He is controlled by a major corporation. It isn't real. No wonder American males are so confused. Celebs are pusses. Why? Because they don't live their own lives. They are obedient or else they get kicked to the curb for another new created star. For the last time - TV IS FAKE! REALITY SHOWS ARE FAKE! HOLLYWOOD IS FAKE!!!
Yeah, TV and movies are fake but that's kind of the idea. That's why it's called "acting." Also, celebrities aren't all pusses. Sure, Dakota Fanning and Justin Beiber are under very strict control from their handlers but take George Clooney or Jay-Z for example and I can guarantee you that NOBODY is telling them how to live their lives.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
Another terrible post by smalljimbo. Thanks for displaying your lack of knowledge on yet another subject.BigJimbo said:He is controlled by a major corporation. It isn't real. No wonder American males are so confused. Celebs are pusses. Why? Because they don't live their own lives. They are obedient or else they get kicked to the curb for another new created star. For the last time - TV IS FAKE! REALITY SHOWS ARE FAKE! HOLLYWOOD IS FAKE!!!
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
Uh, another horny boy from the Midwest. I feel sorry for you. You hate me because I am banging girls that you never even see in the Midwest.Sir Psycho Sexy said:Another terrible post by smalljimbo. Thanks for displaying your lack of knowledge on yet another subject.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
lol...typical response from a creepy fat computer nerd. A little less creative than I was hoping for but you tried your best.BigJimbo said:Uh, another horny boy from the Midwest. I feel sorry for you. You hate me because I am banging girls that you never even see in the Midwest.
I feel bad for you kid...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.