You know what the greatest thing about early thirties is?

[trent81]

NO MATTER WHAT A WOMAN DOES TO ME, IT NEVER SURPRISES ME ANYMORE. A woman can have one of those creatures from the movie "The Thing" come out of her vagina and I would be like "like that was a surprise (roll eyes)". I cannot believe some of the things I have gone through with chicks. They all lie, cheat, and steal if "granted the opportunity". I seriously think I'm going to be single for the rest of my life, not because I can't get women, but because I can't meet a good one. My buddy just got a divorce, she took half, two children he gets to "pet" and talk to once a week like it was a zoo or something. I slept with a married woman who told me she was getting a divorce, never happened, now I have to watch my back. My buddy saw his girl banging another man and she had her finger in his a** when he walked in. When he beat his ass and confronted her, she said, "He's a freak in bed, you were too conservative". Another buddy, a cop, was at work, he goes to the parking lot to get in his car and go home, he looks inside another car, there she is, giving head to a 250 pound man, balding, supervisor, for a promotion. This is a female cop we are talking about. Another woman, married to one of my wealthy friends, leaves him for another woman. She says "I did it in college, and the feelings came back". I can go on and on. So much negativity. Will I ever find a decent woman?

 

[LeftyLoosey]

I agree, there's a tonne of negativity.

Just for ****s and giggles, why don't you list the non-destructive relationships in your life. You'll find it's a much more difficult exercise, not because you don't know any, but because it's so much harder to write:

"Then there's Bill and Judy, they're married and have 2 kids... and... uhh.... *crickets*."

It's so much easier to focus on the negative relationships around you. It's the same reason why the media doesn't report on the number of successful flights everyday.

"In today's news, 7249 flights successfully reached their destinations without incident. Some aircraft did, however, report seeing clouds."

 

[Desdinova]

I quit being surprised by what women do in my 20s. The best thing about my 30s is that I can still attract a hot 22 year old woman

 

[Tictac]

I agree, there's a tonne of negativity.

Just for ****s and giggles, why don't you list the non-destructive relationships in your life. You'll find it's a much more difficult exercise, not because you don't know any, but because it's so much harder to write:

"Then there's Bill and Judy, they're married and have 2 kids... and... uhh.... *crickets*."

It's so much easier to focus on the negative relationships around you. It's the same reason why the media doesn't report on the number of successful flights everyday.

"In today's news, 7249 flights successfully reached their destinations without incident. Some aircraft did, however, report seeing clouds."

Simple, yet so overlooked. Amen Lefty.

Tictac

 

[The Muscle Guy]

NO MATTER WHAT A WOMAN DOES TO ME, IT NEVER SURPRISES ME ANYMORE. A woman can have one of those creatures from the movie "The Thing" come out of her vagina and I would be like "like that was a surprise (roll eyes)". I cannot believe some of the things I have gone through with chicks. They all lie, cheat, and steal if "granted the opportunity". I seriously think I'm going to be single for the rest of my life, not because I can't get women, but because I can't meet a good one. My buddy just got a divorce, she took half, two children he gets to "pet" and talk to once a week like it was a zoo or something. I slept with a married woman who told me she was getting a divorce, never happened, now I have to watch my back. My buddy saw his girl banging another man and she had her finger in his a** when he walked in. When he beat his ass and confronted her, she said, "He's a freak in bed, you were too conservative". Another buddy, a cop, was at work, he goes to the parking lot to get in his car and go home, he looks inside another car, there she is, giving head to a 250 pound man, balding, supervisor, for a promotion. This is a female cop we are talking about. Another woman, married to one of my wealthy friends, leaves him for another woman. She says "I did it in college, and the feelings came back". I can go on and on. So much negativity. Will I ever find a decent woman?

You sound like a woman.

Enjoy your life, have sex with lots of women. If you happen to meet a girl you click with, great, if not, that's fine too.

 

[The Muscle Guy]

You have two options: You can follow the "quality" emo monks here on the mature man forum and become a hermit who chooses to live a life of celibacy until the mythical and moral "one" with a body of a supermodel suddenly reveals herself in a burning bush; all the while masterbating to the fantasy of her arrival, or you can behave like a masculine male and understand that women are highly flexible amoral creatures who's deepest desire is to be led by and adopt the stronger frame of masculinity and develop a harem of hot women by which you are continually dropping the lowest value females as your own value increases and you attract higher value women; having sex with all of them every chance you get. And during this adventure, if one of them happens to give you such complete pleasure that you wish to commit to just one and have children, you will have married a good one.

Decide whether you are going to be an effeminate gender neutral beta matrix masterbator or a strong, confident male who understands and embraces his nature while receiving all the rewards that go along with it. Everything else is simply a coping mechanism for your own weakness.

Excellent words Don!

I'm starting to realize that most males will never mate, regardless of all the tools available in the community.

The only men that can truly be helped are the masculine men that have been beaten down by our feminism driven society.

The rest will be doomed to a life of masturbation or being used a provider.

 

[scrouds]

The only men that can truly be helped are the masculine men that have been beaten down by our feminism driven society.

The rest will be doomed to a life of masturbation or being used a provider.

I'm going to go off on a limb here and say that this, not hte vagraties of courtship, is the natural order of man. Where the majority of men provide for a family and provision for themselves and their pair bonded mate, while the masculine man tries his best to supply the best seed to as many women as possible.