Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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you know what really sucks? (re: friends)

AmazingTricks

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you missed out on a good read ;)
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The past is the past man. Learn from your mistakes. Remember the past, what it brought you and what it didn't. Most people have things hanging in the past that they wish didn't happen etc. Thats natural. Don't relive the past though. Don't pretend like it didn't happen but also don't tell everyone your business. Its part of what made you who you are today, despite the wrong turns or whatever, you learned from it right?. Make new relationships when you go to school. Work on your self first, new friends and females will follow. That I gaurantee.
 

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People change. friends come an go. I try not to worry about that type of thing (altho sometimes i do).
 

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WDF are you talking about??
 

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Originally posted by Julian
People change. friends come an go. I try not to worry about that type of thing (altho sometimes i do).
thanks ppls, especially you. i hope a spanish midget never pulls you out a crate, necwo.

younghov: im talkin about some serious ****tttt mang.

anyone got incite...hurry b4 i burn this mufugga down...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dude, no one cares about your past friendships - if they do they're cracked, and you don't want that. Did you learn from your mistakes? Are you unlikely to neglect your friends for a joint now? Then you're probably good.

On a sidenote: When you hit college, your set of friends tends to change every 1-2 years. If you've got a couple of life-long friends you're a lucky kid, but you're hardly average. Just go hang out, have some fun, and if anyone asks about your high school friends, tell them some good stories and leave it at that.
 

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Yeah, don't let it get you down. As you get older, people change and take different paths. Your gonna lose some friends along the way, but you will make some new ones as well.

Don't sweat it, everyone loses at least a few of their childhood friends after HS and College.

Mr. Mystery
 

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you should stop smoking all the time. its a waste and a crutch.
 

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i havent smoked for like 4 months, so i already thought of that...
it's not that much better without pot...so imma do wut i want, just not let it control me this time around.

i appreciate the responses...still want that one genius to disect and help tho :D
 
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