"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mackdaddy27

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When the guy is on the highest mountain and he has to tame one of those big birds, I felt that was a a good similey to how to win over girls.


* initially it will be a test, but once you overcome
* of course she will try to "kill you" the bird I mean will try to kill you initially
* She shows that shes into by trying to kill you
* you have to mane her, get on top of her, show her your power confidence strong ness, and if you have demostrated all of that

by connecting the rods with her.

THen she is with you for the rest of your life.

I thought that was the a very good analogy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just a Shot Away

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Haha, nice. A bit of a stretch, but I can see it.

You watched this movie what, 4 times?
 

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i can see the similarities, if it were only that simple still. I'd probably have 10^e wife by now.
 

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in a different perspective, you are raping her and getting her pregnant. you will be a part of her life forever.
 

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If only it were that easy. Personally, I wouldn't want to connect with anyone for the rest of my life that when I only tussled and tamed them for a day. You never know what you're gonna get months or years down the road.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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