You kinda wonder how those guys who

[DJnoob]

don't use this site, get GFs? Im talking about your friends, brother(s), etc.

and some of them don't look good, come in all shapes and sizes.

They probably don't know about afc, c +F, all these "techniques" but they still pull in women.. yes?

I just thought id share this thought here.

Anyone else thought about this?

 

[spider_007]

they know it in a different way. I remember a guy once tell me: "you just got to act like your better then her", and that was years before i found this site....It comes to them natrualy.....what we call C&F and teasing, they call flirting......

 

[Julian]

i had quite a few girls before i ever found sosuave.

i just had that natural dj attitude then some things went down in my life that completely crushed me mentally and physically so i needed this place to regain my strength in order to reign supreme.

 

[DJnoob]

i had quite a few girls before i ever found sosuave.

i just had that natural dj attitude then some things went down in my life that completely crushed me mentally and physically so i needed this place to regain my strength in order to reign supreme.

Whats the "natural DJ attitude" like compared to the stuff here? Im just wondering.

C + F or any of that afc stuff exist in the Natural DJ attitude?

 

[Julian]

its just natural confidence.

the type of confidence that people try and instill in themselves by reading all those pook and fingers posts and articles and basically just everything that sosuave teaches...having that be a part of you naturally without having to learn it.

 

[Gonzalo]

Remember that not all people in relationships are happy (just think how many get someone because they "can't do any better"). This is what Ross J calls "relationships by default". You show me a man who is with a beautiful, nice woman, without having to cater to her every whim or otherwise supplicate, and I'll show you a Natural.

 

[aftershock]

This site has refined me rather than made me. I got women way before I found this place. I didn't understand WHY, particularily, though.

 

[typical]

Exactly most of us here are or were early starters in the dating scene like me I started at 14, and done it naturally till somehow I f*cked up bad with one or two chicks and went all backwards and turned into afc. Then I find sites like this and just refined what I used to have etc etc.

 

[applaya]

there are so many ways to get girls. You don't have to be a natural or anything. The reason I even found any of this stuff online is because I was a junior in high school. I was painfully shy, but a good kid. I was motivated, a good lookin kid, had a job, played sports, worked out and got along with others good. I was just nervous as hell around girls. It was unbelievable how I would only carry a short convorsation with them.

I went out with a few girls but never got past the first or second date. Never even kissed a girl till my senior year. I was just nervous when I was with them.

I did a search online and found askmen, david d's book and newsletter and marius P's newsletter. That helped me out a lot because I had all the tools just not the confidence. I was no longer afraid and good things happened.

I would like to think I would have figured it out eventually. I was a nice kid, just too nice at times.

I think a lot of people on here (or at least a lot in the HS forum) are missing a lot in their lifes, and are tryin way too hard to mack it to girls. They have no social skills and don't know how to seperate the good advice (theres a lot out there) from the bad (theres even more of that out there). In my mind these guys are kinda screwed, maybe not for gettin a girl but for stayin in a long term relationship with a good woman.