"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You just gotta have fun with it...

DjDreamer

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If some sadist tv producer approaches you and gives you 2 options, 1 receiving a couple million dollars while having a camera man record your every move for the rest of your life while he tries his best to make your life extremely depressing or 2 receive a couple thousand while the camera sticks around for only 2 months. Which option would you choose?

The above situation is the predicament that many sosuave readers are face with. They can try their best to make a woman have the best time of her life to the point of them getting depressed with not getting the job done right or they can be calm, confidence, fun while they're around women that have heavy emotional baggage.

The lack of good results makes an aspiring Dj lose confidence and so he retreats to a seduction message board to try and learn more guidlines and study more reasons why those guidlines should work. That sosuave.com reader could have a series of bad luck which doesn't have anything to do with following the guidlines but since he doesn't aim to make himself happy he continues to depress himself with trying to make others happy...it's a bad habit...

Fun people seek fun without relying on other people to validate that they are fun to be with..fun people don't lose their flow because of not hearing a loud laugh or receiving compliments in return...fun people are like wine, the unwitty will realize their intrinsic funness over time.....

So...When you see a beautiful woman near you, don't stress, have fun...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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