You just can't spend any money on women at all... period

[SgtSplacker]

Lots of guys here post about not spending money on women just for the sake of their economy, but what if you have a little bread to throw around? I don't think I have read a thread here where someone discusses how women regard you differently when they know you have some money to spend.

You become some resource to be exploited. They tell you they like you but they don't really act like it anymore. When you are getting to know someone i'm beginning to think it's critical to show them that what you have to offer is you and you alone. No free dinners, no free drinks (well maybe a couple) but yeah.

Don't spend excessive money on women out of principle, not economy.

That's my new motto...

 

[Mr Wright]

Agreed, your money is your resource and your power. If you're giving it away to her, shes not going to value you as much, shes going to see you a free dinner with legs. If you make her earn that sh!t, like if shes been fvcking you well for a few weeks then you order take out one night, shes going to appreciate that more than if you throw it around from day one.

Dates go 50-50 or I will just leave because women earn as much as men these days so why the fvck should I be paying for everything. Thankfully I seem to pick the right girls and it hasnt come to that.

 

[like2jam]

This is a hotly debated topic. I've had mixed results with both scenarios.
Paying for dinner has definitely gotten me laid in the past. But lately, I've been hoping that at least the women will offer. Sometimes I'll let her pay. Although, I haven't gone out again with any of the women that I've allowed to pay recently. Although a couple wanted to and I didn't.

Recently, a chick invited me to get a beer and then proceeded to basically expect that I pay for it! Needless to say, I wasn't impressed. Thankfully she was a ***** and I had no desire to see her again anyway.

It's weird out there for guys, with some of these modern feminist women who want to basically be like men in some ways yet still expect us to pay for them and open doors. And some of these women will get just that. Cause so many men are chumps for pvssy.

I don't have a problem with feminism really, but if you're making good money and you're a woman, then freaking at least offer to pay half. Hell would probably freeze over before a woman would offer to pay for the whole thing. Sounds unusual right, yet men are expected to do this time and time again. No wonder men and women are having such a hard time out there. We're caught between two different world paradigms.

 

[In2theGame]

IMO if you have the money to be able to spend to do a few things then, yeah go ahead and do it but dont over do it. If you dont have the money to dish out, dont feel bad, you just cant do it at the moment and with the inflation of prices all around and the economy in the dumps (dont care what anyone says, Economy is going down the toilet) A lot of people are feelin a bit squeezed. The only problem though is some women dont care that prices are rising.

 

[Zarky]

Read & remember:

"First round's on me!"

Use it, understand it. You're willing to initiate the spending, but it ain't gonna be all you.

 

[like2jam]

Zarky, this works only if there is more than one round!

 

[djgirl]

Whenever im on dates i never expect the guy to pay for me or buy me gifts period. I always insist on paying my way for obvisious reasons. But if he really insists on paying for me i wont say no but it doesnt guarantee a ride in my bedroom....

Tip though: Pay your own way and make her pay hers and make it clear before the date so she cant pull excuses that she left her purse at home...easy.

 

[Zarky]

Zarky, this works only if there is more than one round!

If there ain't more than one round, you need to go back to basic training

 

[Dominance]

Isn't it one of the most basic rules not to spend money on them? Especially at the start.

I rarely do, usually they ask me if I want a drink. My current FB invites me to dinner sometimes and offers to pay for mine.

 

[adam225]

I spent £700 on my girlfriend on a holiday and we broke up on the holiday. Never again lol.

 

[Kailex]

Like I said in another thread:

It's much like putting money on investments or gambling... if you're not afraid to lose the money or it won't hurt you financially, then why not... it's pretty much less of a safer bet than either of those two things with a much less ROI.

But it's also why I never take a woman on a dinner date within the first three times of going out. I'd rather take a homeless person to McDonalds and get them a #6. I'd get a much better sense of personal satisfaction than to take some woman who needs a free meal.

I've spent a dime or two on drinks, coffee, etc... and I'm not opposed to doing so, but I've learned how to combine a low risk, high reward scenario through experience. I don't need to take her out for a sushi dinner to see her clothes come off.

The problem also is what Chris Rock used to say:

"Men can't go back sexually, women can't go back in lifestyle".

And once you start paying for those dinners and anything else... trust me, she is going to get used to it. I've had friends who try to be romantics and give their women flowers on a Tuesday, just because... nice gesture? Sure. But what happens on their birthdays or anniversary? They're going to expect more than what was sent to them on a random Tuesday.

Food for thought, men... spend wisely.

 

[playa99]

Spend wisely, be a man, if a girl expects you to pay its sure as hell a major red flag!!

The girl I'm with now I do pay for most things we do.. Because I have a better job and thats me being a man taking the lead.. If I was to get a house with a woman I'd want to be the main bread earner in the house, the key is to be a MAN about it!