"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you invite her to a party

cNfny

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how often should you stick by her side throughout the thing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never "stick by her side." A girl should stick by YOUR side. If she wanders off, you don't chase her. Do your thing, talk to your friends, talk to other girls, etc. Just do what comes natural, while keeping in mind that you're there to have fun, and not to follow her around and leech off her energy

You've been here since June, I'm surprised you'd even suggest something like "sticking by her side." That mindset makes her the leader and you the follower
 

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You've been here since June, I'm surprised you'd even suggest something like "sticking by her side." That mindset makes her the leader and you the follower
true although i knew if you talk to a girl at a party you should do all you mentioned but wasnt sure if that applied to when you invite and arrive with a girl to a party.
 
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