Did you ask her out? Why not?
Lets call this girl girl A. And the other girl i will mention girl B. There are other girls, but none are important enough to warrant letter designations
Timeline of events:
1. Meet girl A, slowly talk to her, things go well, get her snapchat, text her one day after class to grab lunch with me the following week, she says "sure, I'll see if i can" then goes ghost on me. Then she's absent from the next class (i forget why, but i think it was unrelated to me.) But i delete her snap and move on because that was a 100% clear sign of disinterest to me
2. I talk to girl B who actually started talking to me first, she wanted help with some problem (side note: I'm good at chemistry, they are not) and from there we talked, i got her snap. Told I'd show her the best pizza in the area (side note: it's a 3 hour class and i have light breakfasts, i get food when it's over) but she said she had to work right after. Apparently she's super busy and has no free time, lots of work and class. (She told girl A this too when they met because of me, more on that later)
3. Girl A surprisingly comes back into the picture. I never planned to talk to her again but after a week or two of not talking to her, she came to talk to me while i was talking to girl B. She seems way more interested than girl B, and also way more interested than she was before (example: she asks me a ton of questions now)... After the decisive blowout of going ghost on me before. I don't ****ing know whats going on lmao.
4. The class before this thread: Girl A&B meet because they both wanted to talk to me and so we had a chat, B has to go to work, A and me go outside to wait for her to get picked up, eventually she does but i jokingly ask for a goodbye kiss, and she says "kiss? No, but you can get a hug" so i hug her but i make sure to intentionally slide my hands down to her ass, she doesn't react at all. Dunno if that's a good sign or a bad one tbh.
(She actually replies to any message I send her now, and usually i let her have the last word. She's kind of... Dry over text. Seems like disinterest but in person she's totally different. I assume she's the elusive "bad texter" that most guys thought was just a myth)
5. This thread was made
6. last class: because i can't talk to any other girl in the class (the only other pretty ones sit in the front, which is jam packed so I'd need to steal someone's usual seat, since I'm not gonna do that I'd need to catch them after class, but they all left ASAP), I juggle A&B (mostly A since she shows way more interest)
I more or less separately told both girls that they've got nice asses (using the rap slang cake), and they both smiled and laughed (girl A smiled more, girl B laughed more)
This is the part where I totally **** up via inaction: I had a pretty good chance to kino her when we were sitting next to each other on a big chair for like 10 minutes while we waited for her to get picked up, but i didn't really do anything but talk to her, it did occur to me almost immediately after that i wasted an opportunity but the opportunity came by surprise so i didn't really get to think of how to capitalize, usually we talk standing up across from each other somewhere. I forgot to hug her goodbye though lol, god damn I'm ****ing dumb xD
7. Here we are, right now. Not gonna have that class again til the 30th because of thanksgiving. Not really sure what to do. Don't know how I'll get a chance to talk to any more girls in that class. Not gonna screw up any opportunities with girl A next time though, that's for sure. (Assuming there's even a next time lol)
