You have the right to feel like crap

[muttley]

yo same thing happend to me. i was walking through town and a fat chick 'gave me the look' and said "hey what u doin, chillin yeh?" i walked straight passed and said very firmly "No" and shoved off. lolol

i think the point the original thread maker is trying to make clear is that confidence is lowered when a fat/ug chick hits on you because you might start thinking to your self:

"hmmm, maybe she thought i was in her league and she thought she had a chance so she hit on me?"

or

"maybe she hit on me because she thought i woudnt reject her because im an ug too!" lol

etc etc basically you think that she hit on you because she believes that she has a chance with you. She is not afraid of approaching you , therefore if an ugly girl hits on you why would the beautiful ones want you? ugly girls take all the left over scraps which the beautiful ones reject, maybe thats why it can hurt confidence.

and to someone else who said "if ugs hit on you , hot girls should too"

i dont believe that to be true. maybe because the ugly girls have developed LOWER standards and have understood in theyre heads WHAT THEY MIGHT HAVE A CHANCE WITH, and WHAT THEY HAVE NO CHANCE WITH .

anyone wanna discuss that more... im out

keep ya head up DJs

 

[Fatality]

Honestly no unattractive girl has ever hit on me atleast not to my knowledge. They don't even look at me or acknowledge my existence but the better looking girls always do. Unattractuve girls have never said anything more than "hi" and most of the time they were just being friendly because we had a class together or something like that. Unattractive girls know that they are unattractive. There are some unattractive girls that act like they are hot stuff but they are just insecure and are trying to somehow convince people that they are hot. If she knows that she is unattractive and is SOBER why would she hit on somebody that is obviously out of her league. It's a compliment and an insult at the same time.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by CrotchSniffer
What a WEAK frame of mind to walk around with.

Leave it to a guy who is scared of fags to post this sh!t up.

Oh great, another homo-loving chump.

You should star in a porn movie: From Russia with *** in the bum

Guess there ain't much to do in Siberia, and seeing as Russian women are leaving for North America in droves, I suppose you'll have no other choice but to bat for the other team.

 

[sandinista]

This is a joke right?

I hope it is.. otherwise.. i pity you. i really do.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Absolutely nothing wrong with getting hit on by a fat girl, nothing at all. Alot of them have more limited options, and therefore have more guts than an otherwise hotter woman might have.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
fat, male, hot, ugly..if someone hits on you..its FLATTERING PERIOD!

It ain't flattering to me so your argument is destroyed. It depends on the person. So if a 50 year old granny hits on you do you find that flattering?

No man likes to be hit on by an ugly girl. You probably haven't so you don't know how it feels. I can't wait till one day you are sitting on lets say the cafeteria and out of nowhere this hideous girl sits next to you and starts hitting on you and you're friends see this and start laughing.

I understand the "you have to have some decency and treat them nice," so basically you are saying you have to be a nice guy. I rather not, s**** like this always happens to nice guys. I rather not associate myself with fat or ugly girls. I have a right not to be friendly with them. I want nothing to do with them, they are bad for the reputation.

 

[Layla]

What do you mean?
How can you say that it damages your self esteem?

Yes, I have been hit on by ugly girls. Its actually a big confidence boost. Do you realize that most guys dont get hit on by anyone? If a girl hits on you she finds you attractive. If an ugly girl finds you attractive, most girls in general will find you attractive. Period.

 

[frivolousz21]

It ain't flattering to me so your argument is destroyed. It depends on the person. So if a 50 year old granny hits on you do you find that flattering?

that would be a blast?


you have issues..


why do u care so much about what ur friends think???


Ive been hit on by ugly girls as well as hotties?

ur shallow, and ur a loser to be shallow.

 

[rgeere]

Joe the homophobe is still affected by some AFC thinking apparently; he needs to learn to stop whining and how to turn events [like ugly girls hitting on you] around to your advantage instead of fighting the fact.

I treat all girls the same. If an ugly girl hits on me, then I treat her just like I would a hot girl that expresses interest. With indifference and the mystery of whether I like her or not or I use LJBF ro use her for social proof. Ugly chick's have some hot friends, I'd hate to have one influence them otherwise.

Go read the bible and stop wasting our time.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Oh great, another homo-loving chump.

You should star in a porn movie: From Russia with *** in the bum

Guess there ain't much to do in Siberia, and seeing as Russian women are leaving for North America in droves, I suppose you'll have no other choice but to bat for the other team.

How is a man a chump for not being homophobic? The more gay guys the more women for straight men.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Layla
If an ugly girl finds you attractive, most girls in general will find you attractive. Period.

Yeah unattractive girls will think the better looking guys are good looking obviously but that deosn't mean an unattractive girl would hit on the good looking guy. They know they are out of their league.

 

[Layla]

Originally posted by Fatality
but that deosn't mean an unattractive girl would hit on the good looking guy. They know they are out of their league.

I dont know, A lot of the DJ's on this board would go for a girl who is better looking than them.....

 

[muttley]

Originally posted by Fatality
Yeah unattractive girls will think the better looking guys are good looking obviously but that deosn't mean an unattractive girl would hit on the good looking guy. They know they are out of their league.

i believe that the ugly chicks have developed lower standards. so they will tend to call average looking guys goodlookin. ive seen that happen.

on the other hand, i have noticed that there are some ugs that have extremely high standards in men. for example i worked with one girl for about 6months , she was an ug but her standards in men were HIGH. She was fat, short and DESPERATE, and believe me when i say that any guy wouldnt do for her. He had to have a chiseled jaw line, good physique, tall, the whole package etc

She would 'torture' my frend , whom she found extremly goodlookin, (hes a handsome fellow). By torture i mean, if a guy did that to a girl then he would end up with a harrasment case on his hands lol. She would eye up guys where we work and tell me that hes hot/ hes not, and that she wants to bang this guy and that guy. for most of the time , these guys she commented on were very goodlookin, and i doubt she had a chance, but she thought she did.

i didnt mind how she spoke to me , for a start the only reason i met her was through her cousin who was hb7.5 and we were both hot for each other . So thats the only reason i talked to her and spoke to her lot. Besides the fact that she was an UG , she was a really b1tchy horrible girl. her personality was worse than her appearance. But i emphasise again , her standards in men were ultra high, oh and btw , yeh, she had the most hottest friends u can imagine...thats another reason i kept talkin to her, i wanted to use her as a foot stool to better things


peace .

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Layla
I dont know, A lot of the DJ's on this board would go for a girl who is better looking than them.....

Because guys are all about looks. You can win a hot girl over with a personality, big pockets, or high social status no matter what the guy looks like. Every girl with half a brain should know that guys basically base their entire initial attraction on looks. If they know they are unattractive they will not hit on a better looking guy unless they are drunk.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Layla
I dont know, A lot of the DJ's on this board would go for a girl who is better looking than them.....

That's not necessarily true ... I've seen cases where an unattractive girl would persue a guy that was obviously way above her standards. It happens more than you think.

 

[Layla]

Originally posted by rgeere
That's not necessarily true ... I've seen cases where an unattractive girl would persue a guy that was obviously way above her standards. It happens more than you think.

Yes, I agree with that. Thats what i was trying to say.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by muttley
i believe that the ugly chicks have developed lower standards. so they will tend to call average looking guys goodlookin. ive seen that happen.

on the other hand, i have noticed that there are some ugs that have extremely high standards in men. for example i worked with one girl for about 6months , she was an ug but her standards in men were HIGH. She was fat, short and DESPERATE, and believe me when i say that any guy wouldnt do for her. He had to have a chiseled jaw line, good physique, tall, the whole package etc

She would 'torture' my frend , whom she found extremly goodlookin, (hes a handsome fellow). By torture i mean, if a guy did that to a girl then he would end up with a harrasment case on his hands lol. She would eye up guys where we work and tell me that hes hot/ hes not, and that she wants to bang this guy and that guy. for most of the time , these guys she commented on were very goodlookin, and i doubt she had a chance, but she thought she did.

i didnt mind how she spoke to me , for a start the only reason i met her was through her cousin who was hb7.5 and we were both hot for each other . So thats the only reason i talked to her and spoke to her lot. Besides the fact that she was an UG , she was a really b1tchy horrible girl. her personality was worse than her appearance. But i emphasise again , her standards in men were ultra high, oh and btw , yeh, she had the most hottest friends u can imagine...thats another reason i kept talkin to her, i wanted to use her as a foot stool to better things


peace .

Maybe she thought since she was friends with hot girls that meant she was hot. Maybe a few guys hit on her and she let it get to her head. Maybe her father always told her she was beautiful and she believed him. Maybe she is just a delusional nutcase.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Fatality
Because guys are all about looks. You can win a hot girl over with a personality, big pockets, or high social status no matter what the guy looks like. Every girl with half a brain should know that guys basically base their entire initial attraction on looks. If they know they are unattractive they will not hit on a better looking guy unless they are drunk.

This is only stereotypically true from a logical standpoint. Next time you are an ugly woman, by all means give us the real scoope in the most blunt way known to man.