"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You have a friend/family member that always seems to step in ****!?

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I have a friend like that, everything always seems to work out for him...especially with women.

I mean, sometimes is very hard TO NOT get envious.

They say envy is the strongest when two people are very similiar (e.g. looks, intelligence, height) and one always seems to catch the break.

We are about the same height, same build, same intelligence, etc. He is facially better looking, but only slightly. If he is an 8, I am a 7.

He always seems to meet girls left and right, one after the other. He also always seems to be the one who does the dumping as well.

I would say he is NOT a Don Juan either, because he has on numerous occasions handed out his number or business card w/o getting the girls (an AFC move) and is usually drunk when he spits game to girls.

However, everything always seems to work out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You bring up an interesting point...I think this is one of the reasons why one of my best buds and I are constantly at each others' throats. We're about the same height, build, and looks, and both like to party (drink/smoke/etc) but he's had the bad luck to get a DUI and a marijuana conviction, while I have gotten out of more **** scot-free than you would believe.

I would say your situation is that your buddy just puts himself out there more. Sounds like he is just an outgoing guy who wins some and loses some, but has enough attempts that the losses don't matter.

I'll try a fishing analogy here...who's gonna catch more fish, the guy who uses the most high-tech rod and reel and fancy lures or the guy with a stick of dynamite and a net?
 
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Yeah, he does live in New York City and I live in the burbs with my parents.

However, it was like this before he moved to NYC.
 
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