"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You guys won't believe what just HAPPEND! Got Slapped.

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I made a thread about some girls flaking, a few hours ago. So I decided to go out to the club because I was p!ssed. Unfortunately, I got there within closing hours. So I headed back home, on the way, I saw a longtime friend, he was pretty wasted.

So I see one of the girls who flaked, I recognised her face through a car window. Random car pulled up at outside the club that was closing, I didn't think it was her, then I walked upto the car and recognised her.

Basically, I'm in a world of sh!t. She was in some car with some black guy. She was pretty p!ssed (for what ever reason), this is the same girl that was at a house party who lives near me.

Anyway, I was walking home, and they had drove off. Next thing, I see her parked outside her street with this dude. I tell her to wind the window down, and we get into arguement. She comes out of his car and slaps me three times, I hold her neck and throw her back in the car. This dude came out the car and tries to be a white knight.

So I spit in her face, as she starts crying and keeps telling me, people where trying to treat her for a d!ckhead and how she's been disrespected, how I should've told her that it was more than friends and the guy is just her friend, who she rang to give her a lift home. She's basically saying I'm not her boyfriend and I told her, I don't own her and have only called oer texted her a few times. I'm not sure what happend, but she was emotional about something tonight, probably drinking. She was crying, anyway I walk off and spit at her, for trying to come at me aggressive (slapping). She's lucky I didn't punch her lights out. I'm not a woman-beater, but whatever.

I get home, and now I'm getting white knight threats on my phone from some random dude. LOOOL. WTF.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sounds like you lost your cool a bit, imo i always try to just play it cool, and never get into a heated argument with a girl or guy for that matter. If its a friend and were discussing or arguing about something that different.

Its better i find to either state a point right away calm and collected then walk away, or just walk away if you cant control it.

Or what ive seen a great guy that i know do recently. who is great in business and attraction to. I watched him get insulted and flipped out on and all he did was do a deadpan face sitting with alpha body language and look the person directly in the eyes for about 5-10 seconds, then go back to what he was doing. shut them up right away. like basically take yourself seriously you dont have time for that **** you got other things to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What happened to the dude when he got out of his car? Did you have fisty-cuffs with him?

Also spitting on another person is just low, you can't go around doing things like that, you'll do it to the wrong person one day mate and they'll put you in hospital.

She flaked on you, big deal, man up and learn to accept it. She was spot on when she said "she wasn't your girlfriend". This woman owes you no explanation.

You might need to seek professional therapy to curb your anger, because what you did was unacceptable.
 

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All of the females getting offended by this, what would you do if the girl slapped you 3 times in an argument? Take it and walk off?

Perseverence- unacceptable? he grabbed her and pushed her back, he didnt even raise his hand. There is nothing remotely unacceptable about what happened.

However spitting sounds weird to me too, but whatever you're in to.
 
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Ease said:
All of the females getting offended by this, what would you do if the girl slapped you 3 times in an argument? Take it and walk off?

Perseverence- unacceptable? he grabbed her and pushed her back, he didnt even raise his hand. There is nothing remotely unacceptable about what happened.

However spitting sounds weird to me too, but whatever you're in to.
He had every right to push her back into her seat, but spitting on someone is just disgusting. It's unacceptable behaviour, if someone spat at me, I'd charge them down to the floor.

He wouldn't have got slapped if he wasn't such a baby about being flaked on. We've all been flaked on, do you see thousands of men going around doing what he has done everytime they're flaked on?

He should have just left it and gone home, chalked it up as a bad night and gone to sleep. He went looking for trouble and found it.
 

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Jeez bro shes not lex luther with some kryptonite in the boot. You should of just saw her, ignored her and walked past and came home with a bunch of hotties. If a girl flakes on me she dosn't deserve my time she no longer exists, but you acted like a complete AFC and just start arguing with her, maybe her slapping you wasn't the right thing to do, but you shouldn't of went up to her the first place and started *****ing about a few texts.

Grow up dude and handle the situation like a man rather than crying and throwing your toys out of the cot.
 

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perseverance said:
He had every right to push her back into her seat, but spitting on someone is just disgusting. It's unacceptable behaviour, if someone spat at me, I'd charge them down to the floor.

He wouldn't have got slapped if he wasn't such a baby about being flaked on. We've all been flaked on, do you see thousands of men going around doing what he has done everytime they're flaked on?

He should have just left it and gone home, chalked it up as a bad night and gone to sleep. He went looking for trouble and found it.

rushing dude 123 said:
Jeez bro shes not lex luther with some kryptonite in the boot. You should of just saw her, ignored her and walked past and came home with a bunch of hotties. If a girl flakes on me she dosn't deserve my time she no longer exists, but you acted like a complete AFC and just start arguing with her, maybe her slapping you wasn't the right thing to do, but you shouldn't of went up to her the first place and started *****ing about a few texts.

Grow up dude and handle the situation like a man rather than crying and throwing your toys out of the cot.
Whats this gay sh!t? That guy was out on the field, called a girl on her BS, and defended himself. and you come with this gaya$$ sh!t, with this retarded nonsense. Dont tell others to grow up when you are child yourself. idiots
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whats this gay sh!t? That guy was out on the field, called a girl on her BS, and defended himself. and you come with this gaya$$ sh!t, with this retarded nonsense. Dont tell others to grow up when you are child yourself. idiots
I'm sorry, I forgot Eastern Europeans weren't as civilised as English people.

In England if someone sees you spit at a girl or grab her by the neck, they'll spark you out cold.

I guess Hungary is still locked in Russia's grip?
 

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uhhhh...why are you chasing flaky *****es around
 

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I'm sorry, I forgot Eastern Europeans weren't as civilised as English people.

In England if someone sees you spit at a girl or grab her by the neck, they'll spark you out cold.

I guess Hungary is still locked in Russia's grip?
You are just shaming yourself with this.

"In England if someone sees you spit at a girl or grab her by the neck, they'll spark you out cold."
...the black guy saw that. maybe he had sunglasses on and it was dark but i bet he saw what happened.

Oh, and we dont grab each others neck, and we have no street-fights, and things that happened to the OP, we just shoot each other with AKs. ...and we just leave it and go home:D
 

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Alien said:
Whats this gay sh!t? That guy was out on the field, called a girl on her BS, and defended himself. and you come with this gaya$$ sh!t, with this retarded nonsense. Dont tell others to grow up when you are child yourself. idiots
Nice response i am actually suprised you are 22, but look if you think you can win some made up war in your head trying to chat **** to a flake by whining "WAHHHH why didn't you call me, WAHHHHHH you gave me a wrong number WAHHHHH you didn't respond to my poke on facebook" ...ummm yeah good luck with that.

If the girl is bad meat, just leave it and get yourself a nice fresh steak to bring home for the night. Guys like you waste too much time on these girls that are not worth it, its just desperation. If she came up chatting **** to you maybe i can understand, but seriously to go out of your way to talk to someone to just chat crap over a measly flake isn't going to solve anything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rushing dude 123 said:
Nice response i am actually suprised you are 22, but look if you think you can win some made up war in your head trying to chat **** to a flake by whining "WAHHHH why didn't you call me, WAHHHHHH you gave me a wrong number WAHHHHH you didn't respond to my poke on facebook" ...ummm yeah good luck with that.

If the girl is bad meat, just leave it and get yourself a nice fresh steak to bring home for the night. Guys like you waste too much time on these girls that are not worth it, its just desperation. If she came up chatting **** to you maybe i can understand, but seriously to go out of your way to talk to someone to just chat crap over a measly flake isn't going to solve anything.
Look, many guys watch too much James Bond and they think that in the real life everything goes that smoothly... if you are some magic man(John Travolta in Get Shorty, Don Draper in Mad Men,etc) then you wont get into arguments, you wont have sh!tty days, you wont have flakes, you wont have girls screaming at you on the street, you will never be taken as an idiot, and so on. It happens. Thats normal. Then you will turn the other cheek, and go home and sleep? You will be zen? You called that guy a complete AFC cause he called a girl on her BS and didnt let her beat him up. Now if you say that it wasnt stupid, then i sh!t myself. I agree, you shouldnt waste your energy with flakes. But things like this will happen. How else coluld guys spit a crying girl in the face with a shouting black dude on their sides?:D The world would be boring:D

Thank you for not being like perseverance. I said that he talked idiocy, and instead of telling why im i wrong and he is right he came and tried to shame me and talked sh!t about russia and hungary with girlish sarcasm. i just dont understand people like that
 

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Alien said:
Look, many guys watch too much James Bond and they think that in the real life everything goes that smoothly... if you are some magic man(John Travolta in Get Shorty, Don Draper in Mad Men,etc) then you wont get into arguments, you wont have sh!tty days, you wont have flakes, you wont have girls screaming at you on the street, you will never be taken as an idiot, and so on. It happens. Thats normal. Then you will turn the other cheek, and go home and sleep? You will be zen? You called that guy a complete AFC cause he called a girl on her BS and didnt let her beat him up. Now if you say that it wasnt stupid, then i sh!t myself. I agree, you shouldnt waste your energy with flakes. But things like this will happen. How else coluld guys spit a crying girl in the face with a shouting black dude on their sides?:D The world would be boring:D

Thank you for not being like perseverance. I said that he talked idiocy, and instead of telling why im i wrong and he is right he came and tried to shame me and talked sh!t about russia and hungary with girlish sarcasm. i just dont understand people like that
these kind of things will only happen to emo-bitches like the OP who can't control themselves. Why the fvck would you even wanna confront a bitch you barely even know who apparently flaked on you so that she could go on all four for some random asshole. He should've just kept it moving, she don't owe him any explanation for why she did that and its pretty obvious she didn't wanna hang out with him anyways. Take a hint and move the fvck on.
 

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teacha said:
these kind of things will only happen to emo-bitches like the OP who can't control themselves. Why the fvck would you even wanna confront a bitch you barely even know who apparently flaked on you so that she could go on all four for some random asshole. He should've just kept it moving, she don't owe him any explanation for why she did that and its pretty obvious she didn't wanna hang out with him anyways. Take a hint and move the fvck on.
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teacha said:
these kind of things will only happen to emo-bitches like the OP who can't control themselves. Why the fvck would you even wanna confront a bitch you barely even know who apparently flaked on you so that she could go on all four for some random asshole. He should've just kept it moving, she don't owe him any explanation for why she did that and its pretty obvious she didn't wanna hang out with him anyways. Take a hint and move the fvck on.
See my posts above
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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