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TheGambino

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Alright Ive been dating 2 girls the last few weeks. Been on 2 dates with 1 HB7 'M' and only 1 date with the other HB8 'S'.

They both know eachother from school we were all in class in our teenage years. I first dated the smart HB8 'S' posted about her. Great night, lots of fun and kino but she left with a mutual friend who lives nearby to drop him off like I posted in that thread! I went no contact since we rescheduled to much and I decided to let everything come from her side. No text contact anymore.

So I focussed on the other 'M', been on a date, great date lots of fun she came to my house but we didnt have sex. Lots of kino in the bar and laughs but no kiss close aswel only kisses on the cheek was planning on escalating tonight but!

She called me around 6 after work, small talk and a time to meet up. She suggested 23:30 but I said 22:30 since I wasnt planning on staying up all night. She also said 'hey lets ask 'S' 'hb8 smart girl that I dated earlier' to join us tonight? OBV SH1T TEST because she knows we dated I told her we meet up for a casual drink the first date. she already knew that from a friend who saw us. I replied why? nah we go out with the 2 of us, she laughed akwardly and changed subject

I went to the gym and texted her around that time to come to my house so we can go to the bar. She replied "your house?'' why? So I replied, then she texted what time? I replied 10 minutes. She replied ''ill text you in a bit'' I called her 15 mins later because I was ready to go. She didn't replie nor text! The other girl 'S' was online on whatsapp the whole time. I got a strong feeling they have found out Ive been going out with both of them and 'M' contacted her. Anyway hb7 M who I scheduled to have the second date with kept me on a line with what time? later? now? why in that specific bar lets go to another one. I texted Ill pick u up now she replied 'im at my grandma's ill be home later'

So she was definitley playing with me probably not planning on going out but flaking and making fun of me im 99% sure. This girl is a liar I found out, a mutual friend doesnt speak with her anymore due that she told me. Also she has a low self asteem and a big attention *****. The other hb8 "S'' is a smart fun girl way better option then this one.

Anyway I got a strong feeling they were talking about me and planned on both to keep me on the line and play with me. Maybe because their interest level isnt sky high anyway, I feel that I admit that aswel, even though it was fun. Because they wouldnt be doing this if they both wanted to f8ck me badly.

So I planned to ask out another girl. Ofcourse I called this other back up plan girl to have drinks and she was up for it, other one was making it to hard and I wanted to go out tonight anyway. We went to the big busy popular bar in town and guess what ''S'' Hb8 is there with a big bottle of vodka lots of guys and girls at a table. And she saw me come in my with my back up plate and have fun with her. She was looking so weird to me and started to talk about me to every female friend around her probably telling what happened or something like that especially to her best friend and looking in my direction the whole time. I didnt give her a minute of my time.

I was having drinks with this girl outside and ''M" hb7 texted me hey!! im ready in a bit ill come to centre *bar*. In about 30 minutes? Playing started again, f8cking hoes lmfao... Shes disrespecting me bigtime with this crap of her, obv CRAVING for attention and attention only so she can see howmuch I really like her big red flag imo, so glad im on this forum:) I replied. I'm at *specific bar, your welcome to join up look for yourself. She replied 'Ok' Ofcourse I hoped she came so she can see me with this new girl and I would ignore the f8ck out of her but she didnt show up just as I expected. Glad the other ''S'' hb8 I dated with saw me have fun with her so im 100% sure shes going to tell her.

''S'' hb8 walked by I called her name she looked at me and glanced gave me 3 kisses flirted with her eyes and left. After that she was acting like a BIG SLUT in front of me dancing with all random guys trying to make me jealous. She was looking her eyes out though to the girl I was with...

Jeez guys..... Im planning on going no contact on both of 'em especially on hb7 'M' attention ***** control freak weird lying scumm who is trying to play me. btw we had a date scheduled a year ago and she flaked. After that I went no contact and ignored her messages for 2 months (she freaked out sending me triple messages but I never replied) after that I met her randomly and we started to text again. Weve been calling a lot 3 times a week or so with fun convo's. I think shes very jealous and insecure and can't handle the fact Im seeing other girls aswel + the fact that I ignored her in the past shes trying to karma me and keep me on the line with rescheduling and flaking now....

any input from you guys is welcome ofcourse i love to see your opinions on the above and maybe you guys can use it in your favour!

I dont care about especially 'M' Ill do any fun sh1t you guys tell me to say to her or text her but that will satisfy her need for attention and drama. She loves it when I give her attention and be her orbitter but f8ck that sh1t ofcourse.
 
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thunder_god

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TheGambino said:
Alright Ive been dating 2 girls the last few weeks. Been on 2 dates with 1 HB7 'M' and only 1 date with the other HB8 'S'.

They both know eachother from school we were all in class in our teenage years. I first dated the smart HB8 'S' posted about her. Great night, lots of fun and kino but she left with a mutual friend who lives nearby to drop him off like I posted in that thread! I went no contact since we rescheduled to much and I decided to let everything come from her side. No text contact anymore.

So I focussed on the other 'M', been on a date, great date lots of fun she came to my house but we didnt have sex. Lots of kino in the bar and laughs but no kiss close aswel only kisses on the cheek was planning on escalating tonight but!

She called me around 6 after work, small talk and a time to meet up. She suggested 23:30 but I said 22:30 since I wasnt planning on staying up all night. She also said 'hey lets ask 'S' 'hb8 smart girl that I dated earlier' to join us tonight? OBV SH1T TEST because she knows we dated I told her we meet up for a casual drink the first date. she already knew that from a friend who saw us. I replied why? nah we go out with the 2 of us, she laughed akwardly and changed subject

I went to the gym and texted her around that time to come to my house so we can go to the bar. She replied "your house?'' why? So I replied, then she texted what time? I replied 10 minutes. She replied ''ill text you in a bit'' I called her 15 mins later because I was ready to go. She didn't replie nor text! The other girl 'S' was online on whatsapp the whole time. I got a strong feeling they have found out Ive been going out with both of them and 'M' contacted her. Anyway hb7 M who I scheduled to have the second date with kept me on a line with what time? later? now? why in that specific bar lets go to another one. I texted Ill pick u up now she replied 'im at my grandma's ill be home later'

So she was definitley playing with me probably not planning on going out but flaking and making fun of me im 100% sure. This girl is a liar I found out, a mutual friend doesnt speak with her anymore due that she told me. Also she has a low self asteem and a big attention *****. The other hb8 "S'' is a smart fun girl way better option then this one.

Anyway I got a strong feeling they were talking about me and planned on both to keep me on the line and play with me. Maybe because their interest level isnt sky high anyway, I feel that I admit that aswel, even though it was fun. Because they wouldnt be doing this if they both wanted to f8ck me badly.

So what does a true don juan do? Ofcourse I called another back up plan girl to have drinks and she was up for it. We went to the big busy popular bar in town and guess what ''S'' Hb8 is there with a big bottle of vodka lots of guys and girls at a table. And she saw me come in my with my back up plate and have fun with her. She was looking so weird to me and started to talk about me to every female friend around her probably telling what happened or something like that especially to her best friend and looking in my direction the whole time. I didnt give her a minute of my time.

I was having drinks with this girl outside and ''M" hb7 texted me hey!! im ready in a bit ill come to centre *bar*. In about 30 minutes? Playing started again, f8cking hoes lmfao... Shes disrespecting me bigtime with this crap of her, obv CRAVING for attention and attention only so she can see howmuch I really like her big red flag imo, so glad im on this forum:) I replied. I'm at *specific bar, your welcome to join up look for yourself. She replied 'Ok' Ofcourse I hoped she came so she can see me with this new girl and I would ignore the f8ck out of her but she didnt show up just as I expected. Glad the other ''S'' hb8 I dated with saw me have fun with her so im 100% sure shes going to tell her.

''S'' hb8 walked by I called her name she looked at me and glanced gave me 3 kisses flirted with her eyes and left. After that she was acting like a BIG SLUT in front of me dancing with all random guys trying to make me jealous. She was looking her eyes out though to the girl I was with...

Jeez guys..... Im planning on going no contact on both of 'em especially on hb7 'M' attention ***** control freak weird lying scumm who is trying to play me. btw we had a date scheduled a year ago and she flaked. After that I went no contact and ignored her messages for 2 months (she freaked out sending me triple messages but I never replied) after that I met her randomly and we started to text again. Weve been calling a lot 3 times a week or so with fun convo's. I think shes very jealous and insecure and can't handle the fact Im seeing other girls aswel + the fact that I ignored her in the past shes trying to karma me and keep me on the line with rescheduling and flaking now....

any input from you guys is welcome ofcourse i love to see your opinions on the above and maybe you guys can use it in your favour!

I dont care about especially 'M' Ill do any fun sh1t you guys tell me to say to her or text her but that will satisfy her need for attention and drama. She loves it when I give her attention and be her orbitter but f8ck that sh1t ofcourse.
fcuk both of these *****es and just focus on your backup plate.
 

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Damn brotha. some crazy ass b1tches you're dealing with there lol. We've all been there though. It's almost like dealing with crazy attention wh0res is a right of passage to becoming a DJ. Anyway these girls are clearly damaged and immature just forget they even exist for the sake of your mental health.
 

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Thanks for your reply guys especially mauser thanks bro! Very clear. ''M'' called me 1 min ago i didn't replied what would u guys do if she called
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Tortendieb

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Nothing, M sounds like crap anyway.

S sounded good at the beginning, however her later whoring around doesn't sound attractive to me either, plus M will always make life hell for you.

So why bother? I'd only keep playing if you REALLY enjoy the game and wanna practice. Just don't get emotionally involved; they are out to destroy you.
 
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