I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Originally posted by Starman
"STARGEEK - racial/ physical-deformity jokes are lame."
Im sorry Crotch lips,
I had no idea you really wore a scrotum sack on each of your chicken pinwheel ears.
I truly apologize if I have somehow made fun of any physical deformity you might have.
but as far as flaming, take it back to the 5th grade, son. Ive taken sh1ts in boots that came out more creative and artisitic than your posts.
why if you were even near me, I might do you a favor and rip out your spine and clean out my gutters with your tailbone..its the only worthwhile advantage to your existence
now go back to shoe shining with your ear wax and tongue, your too sophmoric for my caliber
Originally posted by Starman
PlaySkool Supreme,
Are you actually laughing at your own flames? you bes stick to what you know best mooseknuckled Dildo salesman, I'll bet if you remove the "H" and "A" keys from your keyboard, you'de probably have nothing more to say
huh huh heuh huh "mo-bombs" her duh der huh heh, I wouldnt expect any more from a testicle headed apemongrel like yourself
Please sh1t in a coffee cup and sip accordingly until you come up with something intelligible I can work with
until then keep your fists away from any of your orafices and your lips smacking everytime you come across gay porn
filthy watermelon patch security guard
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
We've noticed. All your stupid sh*t sounds like something a fifth grader would say. Yo, Rainman, your rants suck.Originally posted by Starman
but as far as flaming, take it back to the 5th grade
Hmmm... here's a guy whose location is ?HELL? and his age ?69?. How much action do you get Zeph, have you ever pissed in your mom's ass? I bet that donkey you keep fantasizing about made you choke on his **** while he bit off yours, you dirty little faggot. About grabbing me, don't get to excited, if you get a little too close to me I might just have to smack you around like the little ***** you are. Stick to your farm animals and ass-pissing rituals, this forum is a little too advanced for you.Originally posted by Zephyrus
MVPlaya,
*Zephyrus grabs MVPlaya, and donkey f*cks his face* HEE HAW... HEE HAW. Now shut the f*ck up you frail lil b*tch.
AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HE ****IN GOT YOU CROTCHSNIFFER!!! It's sad too because he probably spent hours looking at every one of your lame ass posts just to find a little dirt so he could post on a "flames" post started by a mentally retarded kid on an internet forum that he spends way too much of his life on.Originally posted by Starman
this is how much "game" CS has
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=332487#post332487
Here's a tip Mack Daddy of Masturbating, do not go onto a forum confessing your masturbatory addictions, then claiming you have "game"
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have those same pics on my hard drive that sm sent me. they are fakes...even he doesn't try to deny it anymore.Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Starman has skills. I saw some pics with him and various hot girls.
Just to settle it.![]()
Prune face...sorry charley I look the same as when I was 20...black skin doesn't crack...unlike those blood vessles in ya nose. And if I use a long thread like you've been known to do so what...Originally posted by Starman
The thought of a wrinkled prunefaced Playa Supreme dressed up as a hillbilly & banjo singing the beverly HillBilly's tune quacks me up..if you bought yourself a little monkey that can hold a coffee mug and go out in the streets with your act, you'de be hella rich!
You've written a 10 page post, and still havent said 1 word..OTTAYY??
Now to the rest of you Sh1tslops, Please keep your "flames" brief, if its not funny in the first few sentences you can type away until your mudflapping gums sag down to your testicles, it STILL wont be funny
This goes for you too MomsVaginalPlaya
In the mean time, I give you pastule faced trolls permission to copy my flames and use them as your own on other boards
Hey Player, I got a birdfeeder in my backyard. Don't be knockin that shiitOriginally posted by Player_Supreme
Nice guys are about as exciting as bird watching.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.