"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You guys always qualify most women you go out with

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I started re reading the bible again, one article i didnt really look into was the "qualifying/ screening part"

I got the teasing part down, convo part down, sexual innuendo part down, c & f, etc etc..except the "screening part"..

When i read abotu that.. i was like "WHOA" the screen can totally lead to asking a chick out like hot knife slicing through butter.


I NOTICED, I had this one chick try to screen me at work. We've flirted, etc etc... She was chasing me alright..Sexual tensions was at its peak during the moment. It got to point where i opened my mouth and wiggled my tongue at her.

This is how she responded ("screening me" after she saw me wiggle my tongue in my mouth at her)

HB: "Only if you're serioues" ( <<< QUALIFIER )
Me: "What if..." ( << Smooth come back i thought))"

What kind of "screeners/qualifier" you use? I know theres a lot depending on the situation. But, what screeners/qualifiers did you use that got the women chasing and got you laid
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not sure which type of screening you are talking about. When, I think of screening/qualifying women. I see how they act and who they are to figure out if she is relationship material. Is that what your talking about?
 
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i was talking about.. qualfying as in.. okay for example u flirt flit flirt at work kino, escalate. then it just gets to the point where you want to see if this chick is just all bluff.. so u throw in a screener/qualifier like

hb (attention *****): omg, i was waiting for you at this karaoke party after work. Thats why i went
me: yeah i didnt go.. but if you can sing better than william hung, ill call you up and invite you to the next part
 
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