"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You guys always qualify most women you go out with

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I started re reading the bible again, one article i didnt really look into was the "qualifying/ screening part"

I got the teasing part down, convo part down, sexual innuendo part down, c & f, etc etc..except the "screening part"..

When i read abotu that.. i was like "WHOA" the screen can totally lead to asking a chick out like hot knife slicing through butter.


I NOTICED, I had this one chick try to screen me at work. We've flirted, etc etc... She was chasing me alright..Sexual tensions was at its peak during the moment. It got to point where i opened my mouth and wiggled my tongue at her.

This is how she responded ("screening me" after she saw me wiggle my tongue in my mouth at her)

HB: "Only if you're serioues" ( <<< QUALIFIER )
Me: "What if..." ( << Smooth come back i thought))"

What kind of "screeners/qualifier" you use? I know theres a lot depending on the situation. But, what screeners/qualifiers did you use that got the women chasing and got you laid
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm not sure which type of screening you are talking about. When, I think of screening/qualifying women. I see how they act and who they are to figure out if she is relationship material. Is that what your talking about?
 

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i was talking about.. qualfying as in.. okay for example u flirt flit flirt at work kino, escalate. then it just gets to the point where you want to see if this chick is just all bluff.. so u throw in a screener/qualifier like

hb (attention *****): omg, i was waiting for you at this karaoke party after work. Thats why i went
me: yeah i didnt go.. but if you can sing better than william hung, ill call you up and invite you to the next part
 
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