"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can't help noticing that Tinder has gone from marginally useful to completely unusable in the last couple of months. At a guess, I'd say the bots outnumber the real profiles 5:1 in my area.

It actually wouldn't be a huge problem - if you could tell the bots from the real profiles. Amusingly, it's not that the scammers have suddenly become more sophisticated - it's that the vast majority of women on Tinder have become so lazy and so unimaginative that they're impossible to distinguish from bots.

Quite an achievement ladies, bravo.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm not on Tinder, but fwiw the latest thing on craigslist is for bots to re-post ads that were once real to re-use them in different cities.

Facebook is full of fake profiles with two pics of some random hooker with a bunch of links to a porn or web cam site. I have a lot of moron guy facebook friends who keep adding these fake profiles as friends. When I look at the pics, hundred of guys will have commented, all trying to hit on the bot.
 

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Half the messages I received on OKcupid were from scammers and trannies pretending to be straight single females.
 

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Speaking of trannies. I saw one recently who used her profile to take the piss out of SJWs and the perpetually offended - playful, funny, and intelligent - better than 99% of the "real" female profiles I've seen. Otherwise their profiles tend to be bloody awful (just like the real thing, lol).
 

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say, its not common for both this online dating and tinder to use fake profiles and send msg just to fake numbers and to amke people pay for they use? if I remember right most of then have the premium features and they force you to have one so you can comunicate with others, so a bot send a msg to force you to pay a premium is the normal to happen?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a lot of moron guy facebook friends who keep adding these fake profiles as friends. When I look at the pics, hundred of guys will have commented, all trying to hit on the bot.
I see this stuff too, makes you wonder what is going through their minds. Or if the need to find some p*ssy is just that strong. And they say testosterone levels are dropping?
 
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