"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You gotta have interest first...

Dilly

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I gotta do this quick, I need to go to work.

But guys, you can read all the articles on here or anywhere for that matter about dating...but it won't really help unless the girl had interest in you in the first place.

Since joining here, I have learnt so much. One thing I have noticed is that, if THAT girl doesn't have much interest in you in the first place, it will be very hard to get her.

So that is why you need to always looks your best, talk your best, smell your best...ANYWHERE YOU GO!
This at least gives you a good chance to get your foot in the door.

And Guys, not every girl will like you. You gotta accept that fact. That's why the "NEXT" rule here is very important. If she isn't responding to your "Mackin' Material", MOVE ON FOR CHRISTS SAKES! Don't waste your time!

Cheers!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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