"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you ever had this happen to you?

big weezy

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i was trying to game a HB in starbucks and it seemed going okish but she made me know she had to leave in 10mins for an appointment, nothing special not particularly a good game. she leaves.

5mins later she comes back and says to me to take her number and we can meet up for a coffee again some time.. i was really stunned.. this hasn't happened to me before. i should have acted bit more excited cos it must have been hard for her to do that and must be thinking she'll look desperate.

shook her hand took her name, and number and she left. not bad. has this happened to anyone before?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why worry when you already have her number, she might be telling the truth
Try to game her and go from there.
 

DonJuanabe

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She knows she is good looking. She liked your effort. She realized maybe there is something good between you two. She gave you her number in order to find out if that's the case. Call her Sunday night.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ok we went on our date but it didn't go so well, took like 3 days to organize.. she declined my drink offer and suggested coffee instead (this was a red flag for me cos 9 times out of 10 when a girl counters with coffee it means she has a bf) in this case the 1/10 time she didn't. so we went for coffee locally last fri. i started to realize she's a bit of a control freak and wants to do things always on her terms, ie which table we sit at, going for coffee instead of a drink etc

i have to admit i wasn't at my starkling best and talked too much. i kino'd a bit, but she seemed very nervous, fidgeting etc. i kiss closed outside but felt she wasn't really into it.

when i walked her to the train station i suggested something about next time (i know, you're not suppose to talk about 2nd date) she asked me 'what do you want to do next time?' i said 'you know what i want to do ;)' and she moved away from my arms.. she obviously knew i meant sex. i suggested to her she wait for the next train..(this is while we were making out) and she said no (control freak again)

i texted her yesterday to meet up this weekend and she hasn't replied. is there much point following this up?

(she takes like a day to reply to a text, i find it really annoying. it's like she's pretending to be busy when i know she isn't)
 

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See you do something like kiss close. I would have been kissing her in the middle of the date. And about the what would you like to do next time question I probably would have said "i'll let you know later". I wouldn't say everything is all lost over not getting one text message.
 

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Send one more extremely funny and challenging text. If she doesn't reply. Preserve your dignity and GTFO.

Strange behaviour from her just looking at what you described. Came on strong, then seemed to flake a bit. Let us know how it pans out, OP!
 
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