"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You don't need to do everything right

mr.uk

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When I go out and I am chatting to a girl, my brain takes the view that everything that I do must create attraction...which is actually far from the reality. You must do SOME things that are attractive, but if you do or say something AFC there is no worry about the girl not liking you if you have done something right already. The point here is take the pressure off of yourself and relax...rely on your spontaneous on the spot ability because IT IS GOOD ENOUGH.

My sister (16) who is very pretty is going back out with her ex BF who has been making himself available all the time...texting her an if she doesnt text back he texts again to see whats wrong...if she wants him over here he is here within an hour yet she is still going back out with him...she has alot of lads after her aswell she is a very pretty girl (what can you expect she carries my DNA :D)

I learn from this that this guy is doing something right but not everything so the moral is to relax and dont worry about what you say or your behaviour because just cos you did some things wrong..you could still be in there!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Al Moh.

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Yeah, you're totally right, prefect is boring! If you were the perfect Don Juan, there would be nothing special about you, that makes you human.

And if you worry too much, you tend to be nervous and mess up things even more.
 
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