"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"You dont look promising!"

DonSonnySagliani

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- its not you ... i dont know you dont look like you are the promising guy who sticks to one girl

-you know i dont know what you have but theres something about you that made me wanna **** you hehe you kno

-the first time i saw you when u smiled i was like i wanna **** this boy hehehe im such a freak

All the three of these statements are said by a ex-girl of mine and there was a loooooot of this **** told to me by almost ech ex of mine.
I know that most of the girls out there would LOVE to **** with me...but when it comes to love me....Fu<K it. And it's not that i date bit<hes. But these girls are making me feel like a sex-machine sometimes. They only like the way i f...

Is it the way i look that prevents me from getting love, or it is attitude.
Anyway any help on KEEPING a girl and make her FALL IN LOVE with me would be great. Thnx.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OfficeSpace

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Maybe it's your look. I have the same thing happen to me (I'm a model)! Like girls tell me how many girls say they'd love to make out with me and stuff... But I doubt there's any true love in that... Just infatuation.

But sit tight bro, I'm sure there's a girl out there for us that will love us for being "us" and not entirely on what we look like.

http://www.myspace.com/neonbase
 

Scorched

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Are you all looks and no brains?

Girls that you normally have access to are at the stage where they are exploring their sexuality?

huh

http://www.myspace.com/ralex
 

OfficeSpace

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Yeah, but I'm not totally all for that... It's nice to have a girl like you for yours looks, but I'd rather have a girl like me for who I am! I think relationships that are based soley on looks don't last because eventually you get tired of the way the person looks and long for more. That or someone different!

Oh, that's cool your a model dude! Seems like this forum has a bit of guys that are good lookin and can "actually" get laid!

Kinda wierd that even good lookin dudes like us have some problems with girls like the average lookin guys!

Sometimes I think it's tougher being good looking because you scare women away! haha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At your age, I would take advantage of it. This is the time you need to go out there and sow your oats instead of practicing playing house.

Seriously, make the most of it while you can. Yes we all have these deeper desires to be loved, but in 10 years from now, you'll be kicking yourself in the azz for not going out there and spreading your seed as much as you could.
 

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good looking guys simple need to play the game a little differently then avarage looking guys. i've been told i'm above avarage looking. cute, handsome all that stuff. but it's all useless if you dont know what to say, how to act, what frame to have.

my fat friend pulls more ass then i do.

i'm also a firm beliver that truly avarage looking guys can have a greta sex life and can pull hot women just as well as super good looking guys.
 

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Originally posted by NeonBase
Maybe it's your look. I have the same thing happen to me (I'm a model)! Like girls tell me how many girls say they'd love to make out with me and stuff... But I doubt there's any true love in that... Just infatuation.

But sit tight bro, I'm sure there's a girl out there for us that will love us for being "us" and not entirely on what we look like.

http://www.myspace.com/neonbase
you aint a model
 

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"you an't a model" LOL !
I'm just not gonna comment if he is or not.

No one has perfect game... but with first hand experience and learning from others mistakes... I believe anyone can come damn close to it.

I wish I found the forum earlier...
I used to give girls too much attention, they'd run off. Now I keep the ball in my court. :) A lesson learned the hard way :(
 

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Alright, back to a golden lesson I have learned over the last six years.

If you project being about looks, partying and only fun in general, you're going to find girls who are into the same thing. If you want girls who are fun, interesting, and into the idea of a relationship, then you need to create a life that the girl wants to become a part of.

You've got some stuff going for you. You're young and according to Myspace, you play piano. But you'd better have better things in your life to talk about than your shoes. lol..

Some suggestions? Hit piano hard. (I've been a concert pianist for about four years and have more women than I can deal with from just that), study self defense, start some art projects or something. Write a book..you heard me. lol..be unique, be the guy the girls always think of when they think of the cool guy.

To many women, especially after high school, the cool guys are the ones that have this inner drive and live life with passion and spirit. They line up around guys like that. Start improving your life man. You'll not only end up with more substansial women, but you may find yourself happier in general.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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