"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You don't know what goes on in people's personal lives...

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The only person you know what 100% goes on in their life, is of course, YOUR OWN.

Have you ever hooked up with a real hot chick and thought to yourself:

"Wow, I must be the luckiest S.O.B on the planet." or

"I bet few, few guys ever get an opportunity like this ever."

Too many of us judge a book by its cover and only see very little in what goes on in others private lives.

How do you know your 50 year old Senior Vice President with the beer gut and recessed hairline isn't banging the hot 30 year old administrative assistant?

You can be naive and think that stuff does not go on in this world, but is certainly does.

You can assume your 5'7", balding, hooknosed, slight beer gutted acuaintance John does not get any attractive women because of his physical appearance.

However, how do you know he is not hooking up with a new 7 or 8 every week? You really don't....


How do you know if the local bartender down the street (who is a good-looking guy) doesn't go home and bang a new hot woman every week.

You simply do not know?

How do you know your father isn't having an affair and cheating on your mom?

You really don't know......

IN CONCLUSION,

Some of those sexual situations you see in Hollywood movies, soap operas, TV shows and PORN movies, indeed DO HAPPEN!!! Don't be NAIVE
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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