"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you decide LJBF..

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so i met this girl. only said a couple words to her, cause i wasnt too interested at the time.

saw her again, and hit it off amazingly! ended up hangin out with friends at a bar, didnt know she was showing up, hit off really well...

end of the night, i was somewhat awkward in getting the number but i did. said some pretty AFC shlt in the process.

but i message her the next day to go to a concert she was wanting to go to, talking about the previous night. she accepted.

good concert, kino, flirting, talking.

i ask to see her again sometime... maybe. (threw the maybe in as a joke)

i get... if its not too serious, on a friendly basis... sometime.

she had dropped the typical im a pahse for im not looking for anything serious in the car while chatting a hour or so before...

i was non chalant about it.

so...

i get three messages this morning on my phone. early. its past 5 now. i havent responded. i can always say i left my phone at home.

so...

what to do what to do?

im new to this practice. i tried to play cool about a year ago when i found this site with another girl, and i TOTALLY f-u-ed it up. haha.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok peeps. i didnt contact her yesterday although i felt like crap doing it.

thinking about responding today, unless one of you djs think its a bad idea.
 

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When You Call her Back:

"Tommorow" Explain to her that you were very busy and tied up, but that you should have some free time this friday.

Don't take her to anywhere real fancy (don't spend alot of money). Pratice some kino, kiss close, and try to fvck as soon as possible.

If she says that she busy friday, tell her that thats the only day open in your "busy" schedule.

You do have backup b*tches right? :woo:




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